“Doctor, I have premature ejaculation, masturbation time less than 1 minute!” “Doctor, I just got a girlfriend, sex time less than 1 minute, is premature ejaculation?” “Doctor, for the first time in my life, I ejaculated without going in, what should I do?” “Every day in the clinic will encounter such patients, premature ejaculation rate has accounted for more than 20% of the men’s outpatient clinic. However, clinically, many patients to their own diagnosis is not correct, unwarranted a “premature ejaculation” hat, will increase the patient’s sense of inferiority, reduce their self-confidence, does not help couples harmony! Introducing a few common outpatient self-diagnosis 1, the first time sex time is short Men’s first time sex is often rusty and awkward, so few successful, some of the ejaculation when the foreplay, the patient more than self-considered premature ejaculation and consulting. In fact, no one can do it right the first time, anything needs a skillful process, just like riding a bicycle. Practice makes perfect! 2, change the sexual partner when the time is short Many patients change the sexual partner when the time will be short, this is a normal phenomenon. We say that premature ejaculation generally refers to and the same sex partner has more than 1 year regular sex life is still short, both spouses are not satisfied. 3, a long time without sex when we say premature ejaculation refers to the regular sex life situation. Some patients live apart, do not meet for a long time, the accumulated sexual energy can not be released, this time the short sex life is a normal phenomenon, can not be regarded as premature ejaculation. Most of the continuous sex life, the time will be significantly longer. 4, short masturbation time Quite a few young people without sex life will be short masturbation time as premature ejaculation. Masturbation time length and stimulation intensity has an absolute relationship, high-intensity masturbation stimulation can completely lead to ejaculation in a short period of time. Repeated high-intensity stimulation, will make the ejaculatory center to form the memory of rapid ejaculation, and when you have sex, may really be “second ejaculation”! There are also many years of masturbation patients after marriage sex can not reach the masturbation stimulation intensity and ejaculation. 5, when the physical condition is poor Sex is definitely a physical activity. Poor physical condition, poor endurance is impossible to have a satisfactory sex life, this time a short time, poor quality and can not be regarded as premature ejaculation. Men should strengthen exercise, enhance physical fitness, not only can prevent disease, improve work efficiency, but also can get satisfied with sex life. 6, time is not as good as others is premature ejaculation Some people’s premature ejaculation is to the third grade movie or friends chat when diagnosed. “You only 15 minutes, I can half an hour!” The speaker is bragging, the listener is intentional, a “premature ejaculation” hat on their own. Statistics show that Chinese men’s sex life time average 2.6 minutes, 15 minutes, half an hour is a minority, a minority of time. The pursuit of sexual life is the satisfaction of both husband and wife, time is only one aspect. 7, the sexual partner is not satisfied is premature ejaculation The highest realm of sexual life is the husband and wife’s harmony, satisfaction, sublimation of feelings, but sexual life is a matter of husband and wife, the harmony needs to be two people together to explore, grinding, create, not just the male side of the problem of the length of time, if the female side of the clitoral orgasm or orgasm arousal disorders, the male side of the time and then long may not be of much use. We clinically say that the diagnosis of premature ejaculation should have a minimum of four characteristics: 1, with regular sexual life: with the same sexual partner with regular sexual life (20 to 30 years old age, at least more than 3 times a week) for more than 1 year. 2, short time: always or almost always ejaculate before entering the vagina or within about 1 minute after entering. 3.Poor control of ejaculation: inability to delay ejaculation after all or almost all entry into the vagina. 4. Significant distress to the man and/or woman: negative personal outcomes such as distress, worry, frustration and/or avoidance of sexual activity. Therefore, the diagnosis should be left to the doctor, do not arbitrarily put on the “premature ejaculation” hat, that may have a significant impact on your family, life, work, social.