Is the newlywed ED far from us?

  This term should not be unfamiliar to everyone, is male erectile dysfunction, commonly known as impotence, so newlywed ED is of course refers to the occurrence of male erectile dysfunction in the newlywed period.  I used to think that now education is so popular, always think that now the network, media, television and film information explosion, always think that now the young people early to watch some love action movies, so when married will not appear sexual disharmony, but the truth is far from it.  Often in the clinic to see a just married or just cohabiting fresh meat distressed to come to the clinic, complaining of their sexual life failure, can not get an erection, worried about whether this is the end of this life, some also more than once so lose a love …… this is called newlywed ED, previously new also called honeymoon ED, honeymoon impotence, refers to married or unmarried has Cohabitation of young men since marriage or cohabitation for the first time (or the first few) sex that is ED. the incidence of newlywed ED is not low, even if again developed countries are so, the etiology is also very complex. Men’s organic erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and other sexual dysfunction; psychological personality depression and anxiety, introversion, unsociable; female congenital vaginal spasm, sexual indifference and other factors may be the cause, and there are many is simply because of sexual knowledge, lack of sexual skills caused.  In China, due to the imperfection of adolescent sex education, many adolescents do not know about sexual physiology, and parents neglect or are ashamed to guide their children’s adolescent growth, so many boys do not understand what is seminal emission, whether masturbation will affect their whole life, and even do not know what sexual behavior is all about. Although later, through some bad books, the Internet, film and television to gain relevant understanding, but also seriously misled, so on the wedding night, or the first sexual act with his girlfriend can not be completed, resulting in psychological shadows and lead to ED. For patients who come to the clinic, after ruling out organic ED, treatment can be divided into several aspects: 1, psychological counseling, tell them that such things bother many people every day. Do not worry, the more nervous, the more eager to do will not work; 2, aided by appropriate sexual skills, such as creating a warm and romantic atmosphere, pay attention to the role of sexual foreplay (kissing, touching, etc.), making both bodies fully prepared; or both sides feel comfortable position; some cases can be phased progress; 3, both men and women counselling better results, tell everyone to face together and frankly, not to each other Complaining and blaming, self-loathing, women should not be afraid of sex, gentle comfort, active cooperation with men, will make them enter into a harmonious sex life as soon as possible.  4, if necessary, auxiliary drugs, such as the use of PDE5 inhibitors under the guidance of a doctor, can often get twice the result with half the effort.  Therefore, in order to avoid the psychological and emotional impact on the couple caused by newlywed ED, the continuous vicious circle aggravates the disease, and finally even cause the rupture of love and marriage, so the purpose of the treatment of newlywed ED is to help patients enter into a good married life as soon as possible.