When is the child’s first rebellious period

From a psychological point of view, the first rebellious period of a child usually occurs at the age of 2-3 years old and is called the baby rebellious period. Thereafter, as they grow up, they will also go through two stages: the child rebellion period (7-9 years old) and the adolescent rebellion period (after 12 years old). Baby rebellious period is easy to be ignored by parents, parents are advised to pay attention to, while choosing the right way to guide and deal with, in order to cultivate the correct behavior of children, as well as a good psychological state. I. Behavioral characteristics: Children at this stage are usually self-centered and attract the attention of adults through some more exaggerated behavior in order to get attention. At the same time, they will be willing to do everything themselves, not want to be directed by parents, and want to be respected and become independent individuals. In addition, the child’s emotional attitude at this stage is usually erratic, wavering, and some children are also prone to rejection of new things. Second, the treatment method: 1, respect and understanding: parents should first understand that this stage of the child’s performance is a normal phenomenon, avoid accusing the child of certain behaviors, such as confrontation with parents, do not allow things must be done, etc., not because the child does not listen, but in this stage they are full of curiosity, and do not want to be directed, parents should protect this state of mind, to ensure the safety of children under the premise of letting them More to explore, very beneficial to growth; 2, moderate refusal: of course, not all of the child’s requests and behavior can be permitted. In front of some issues, parents can appropriately say no and reject their children’s unreasonable requests, which can allow them to establish boundaries internally and have a preliminary understanding of reasonable and unreasonable. However, do not use an overly forceful and reprimanding tone to communicate with your child. Maintaining an equal and humble tone is more easily accepted by your child; 3. Positive guidance: This stage is a better time for parents to cultivate a good social psychology in their children. Children may show some aggression and confrontation in daily life, if parents can actively guide their children to help others and understand others more, it can help children to alleviate this psychological state to a certain extent, and gradually understand the importance of cooperation with others and caring for others, which will help children to enter social life smoothly in the future.