General principles.
1, human sex is happy, sex with love is sex, the opposite is equivalent to the mating of animals, but sex only belongs to marriage, “non-marital sex is the beginning of sexual indulgence”, any sex outside the family is a serious betrayal of family and loved ones.
2. One-night stands are never anything moral, and indulgent sex is a breeding ground for STDs and Aids. Although you have the courage not to talk about ethics and morality, but you certainly will not take their lives as a bet.
3.Don’t believe in condom theory, because the confident and smart Americans believe in the role of condom and lead to the crazy spread of AIDS in the United States.
4, harmonious sex life is an indispensable part of a happy marriage, but pay attention not to indulge in sex, beware of indulgence hurts the body.
5, “sex”, in many cases more means family commitment, responsibility; before you are sure your shoulders can bear enough weight, please consider this carefully.
6, before sex, please carefully consider whether you should contraception, not just thinking about how to be more happy; otherwise, the days after the pleasure, there will be unbearable pain and suffering.
7, the first time sex four notes: bath – soft movements – appropriate place – pay attention to hygiene – contraception.
8, ready to start your journey of sex before, please reserve enough knowledge of sex! Only then, STDs, AIDS, unwanted pregnancies and other terrible bitter fruits will not happen!
9, a woman will never forget her first man, if any of the people who are willing to hurt a pure angel, waiting for their own will be a lifetime of guilt and all kinds of bad luck.
10, by the way, remind all the big brothers and sisters on the topic of conscience: sex with minors under the age of 18, whether the girl or boy consent or not, is a violation of the Constitution of the People’s Republic of China.
On virginity/virginity.
11, the hymen is just a fragile layer of epithelial connective tissue; the first sexual intercourse did not see red, that’s normal. There are many reasons other than sexual intercourse that can cause a hymen to break.
12, women’s nipples, labia black, that is the result of pigmentation, and is not any relationship with virginity.
13, do not try to judge whether a girl is a virgin from her physical appearance, any such method has no scientific basis, even professional doctors, sometimes there is no way to determine whether a girl is a virgin.
14, although there are no obvious physical characteristics to identify virginity, but it is not really impossible to identify the true or false, whether men or women, some things once lost will never come again.
15, if you are unfortunate enough to have had sex with other men or women before marriage, overdraft happiness, you will therefore lose the opportunity to choose happiness, because all men or women have a strong virginity complex deep in their hearts!
On contraception.
16, safe period is not necessarily safe, women have multiple ovulation in a menstrual cycle, which has been written into the textbook.
17, yuting is not a panacea, not a lifesaver; cherish life! Cherish your health! Be careful with Yuktin! (Note: Yuktin belongs to the oral contraceptive class of non-prescription drugs)
18, after taking Yuktin, may lead to menstrual disorders in the next few months, and can cause irregular vaginal bleeding during non-menstrual periods; and, this is only a little bit of the external manifestation of the side effects of Yuktin.
19, condoms are also called condoms, please note! Americans are the ones who are overly convinced of the usefulness of condoms, which led to the spread of the dreaded AIDS on American soil! Of course, the role of condoms in preventing unwanted pregnancies is beyond dispute.
20, condoms can be bought in large supermarkets, pharmacies, etc.; should use good quality condoms, do not just want to cheap and buy poor quality goods; should also pay attention to the use of the correct method of use.
21, do not say that with a condom sex like wearing a raincoat bath as uncomfortable, let their women take the pill for a long time is to let her chronic self-harm.
22, the current level of medical science, any kind of oral contraceptive pills have great side effects.
23, in vitro ejaculation is very unsafe: there is often a small amount of semen out during sex, and, it is not easy for men to control the action when they reach orgasm.
24, the contraceptive ring is not suitable for unmarried, infertile women, not recommended; similarly, vasectomy is not suitable for unmarried, infertile men.
25, for unmarried men and women, of course, condoms. But special attention should be paid to the use of condoms. For those who have children, the best contraceptive method is definitely female tubal ligation or male vasectomy, which is a once-and-for-all solution.
Are you pregnant?
26. If your period has already started, it is a good indication that you are not pregnant. (Of course, a small amount of vaginal bleeding may also occur after pregnancy, but it is easy to tell from the appearance and clearly distinguishes it from menstruation)
27.If your period is overdue after a risky (potentially pregnancy-causing) sexual act, check immediately with an early pregnancy test (or go directly to the hospital). You can use the test paper to check for pregnancy on the day your period starts to be delayed; because if you are pregnant, the hcG value in your urine will reach its peak at this time; pay attention to the correct method of use, and preferably use morning urine.
28.For women who usually have regular menstruation, it is very normal to postpone or advance the menstruation within 7 days once in a while, because there are many factors affecting women’s menstruation (such as weather, diet, emotion, physical condition, etc.); this postponed or extended time limit usually does not exceed 14 days.
29.If menstruation has been delayed for more than 14 days without coming, then please go to the hospital for systematic examination regardless of the test paper test result to avoid any unexpected situation.
30.Early pregnancy reactions such as nausea, vomiting and anorexia are usually possible only after 5-6 weeks after pregnancy (that is, at least 8 weeks after menopause); do not make wild guesses because of this, and please remember to use early pregnancy test paper.
Sexual hygiene/sexual health.
31.Circumcision is an important cause of penile cancer in men and cervical cancer in their spouses; this is the reason why men with circumcision and hypospadias are recommended to have their foreskin removed.
32.Please pay attention to the cleanliness and hygiene of the vulva, which should be washed frequently in general, and both men and women must go to take a bath before making love.
33.Female vagina has strong self-cleaning ability, please do not abuse vaginal lotion if not following medical advice. (Except for vulva lotion) 34. Using pads is not the best choice; choosing cotton underwear and changing underwear regularly is more conducive to the cleanliness and hygiene of women’s vulva.
35, women should pay close attention to the changes in the leucorrhoea; if there are obvious changes in odor, color and sex, gynecological inflammation should be suspected, please go to the hospital for examination and treatment as soon as possible; self-medication may delay the treatment and may aggravate the symptoms.
36.Symptoms such as backache and back pain after sex indicate excessive physical exertion, so more attention should be paid to rest; this is the most basic requirement for sexual health care! Live within your means.
37, sexual mental health is also worth paying attention to one aspect; if you find yourself with a sexual psychological disorder, you should consult a professional psychologist as soon as possible.
38, should not rely too much on sexual fantasy and achieve sexual satisfaction, because excessive sexual fantasy will affect the normal work and study.
39.Sexual deviation (such as fetish, voyeurism, homosexuality, etc.) is a psychological disease and needs systematic psychotherapy.
40, sexual psychology and sexual physiology of the healthy performance, can bring people full of vitality; face their sexual needs, the pursuit of sexual health, healthy and normal life of couples, is the behavior should be advocated, rather than what “embarrassed” thing.
About abortion.
41, whether it is abortion or medical abortion or painless abortion, in a sense, is a great destruction of women’s physical and mental health; the weight of life, you can bear it?
42, abortion should be performed within 14 weeks of pregnancy; if more than 14 weeks, you can only do the more painful and terrible induction of labor.
43, medical abortion to be carried out within 49 days of pregnancy; medical abortion will cause the flow of the situation, then also need to carry out more painful scraping.
44, multiple abortions (whether abortion or medical abortion) will cause the uterine wall to thin, resulting in infertility or habitual abortion, as well as a variety of gynecological diseases.
45.After miscarriage, generally 30-40 days to resume menstruation; after miscarriage, you should follow the doctor’s advice to go to the hospital for a review on time.
46.If you are unfortunate enough to have just had a miscarriage, sex is absolutely forbidden within one month!
47.Whether it is abortion or medical abortion, the consequences are very terrible, so I advise that no matter what, you must prevent accidents.
48, the current widely carried out “painless abortion” surgery, to a certain extent to reduce the pain brought to women at the moment of surgery; but that is only painless, by “abortion” and all the “terrible consequences are All the “terrible consequences” arising from “abortion” are exactly the same!
49.After the abortion procedure, it will definitely leave a lot of terrible sequelae and huge psychological trauma for the woman’s body.
There is no reason to forgive a great mother for killing her unborn child.
Pregnancy/birth of baby.
51.The best time to conceive is for the couple to first get enough energy and choose a windy and sunny day to have intercourse!
52, the first three months of pregnancy and the second three months should be “absolutely” prohibited from sex, for the sake of your beloved wife and the baby in the womb.
53, throughout the pregnancy should pay attention to a reasonable diet, appropriate activities, adequate rest, as well as, not to use random drugs.
54, during pregnancy parents, to do more good deeds that can make them feel joyful and comforting, fetal education done well by the couple will certainly get the best children.
55, breastfeeding mothers who are often angry, is undoubtedly a major killer of the baby, because both Chinese and Western medicine have found that the mother’s milk after the anger will produce a terrible toxin that can cause the baby to get sick, and can seriously lead to the death of the baby. At this moment, you must not breastfeed immediately, at least half a day or a day, but also squeeze out part of the milk, and then dry the nipple with a clean cloth.
Sexuality as I wish.
56, couples sex, the most fatal is to forget to lock the door …… the most irresponsible is to let your children see or hear …… the most humiliating is to let your parents see or hear …… the most embarrassing is to let your friends see or hear ……
57, no one is born to be a sex master, only and partner slowly grinding, practice, your sexual well-being will be perfect day by day.
58, go out to travel remember both sides to bring ID cards, to avoid being ****** caught to say unclear ^_^ (This one is not so strict now!)
59, couple sex must seek the consent of the partner, and, to pay attention to safety, health.
60, “sex” is a way for couples to express their love to each other, but also a special bridge between the couple to feel each other’s favor.
61, sex can try other ways that do not affect the rest of the left and right neighbors and the surrounding environment.
62, the wife’s sexual interest is the need for the husband to cultivate, slowly you will take her into the mysterious garden of sex.
63.Don’t force yourself when you don’t want to; likewise don’t force each other. Only both sides are actively and enthusiastically involved, so that the sex has vitality.
64, although semen is non-toxic, but if swallowed into the mouth will also cause psychological imbalance. (Because the couple should respect and love each other to produce a harmonious marriage and sexual well-being).
65, not much to say, sex as “I” want! So, the way that suits you is the best way; but remember, what goes around comes around, there is no pleasure in playing too much, but instead it will cause physical and mental angst and pain!