The behavioral therapy of premature ejaculation, if it is psychological is treatable, the method is as follows: (1) self-confidence. First of all, the man should be convinced that his sexual function is healthy and normal, the occasional premature ejaculation as soon as the cold and flu will be cured, do not have to worry about it. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not only confident, but also the woman should help the man to build this confidence. The actual people’s Hospital of Zhengzhou Urology Department Qu Xiaowei (2) relax. Sexual intercourse is a way for couples to communicate and satisfy their feelings. Do not focus on the idea of whether you can produce premature ejaculation during sex, but relax to experience the warmth of your wife. (3) Calm down. The man should try to make himself emotionally stable during the arousal phase of sex and not get overly excited. If you get too excited, you can use diversions such as reciting poetry and reciting numbers silently. (4) Posture. When making love with your wife, you can choose the woman-on-man position. (5) cooperation. The woman should be patient and active with the man, warm and gentle physical contact, tolerance and encouragement, as well as the necessary caress, etc., all help the male sexual function of the normal play. (6) understanding. The woman should be sympathetic and caring attitude to comfort her husband, do not blame, sarcasm and taunting, otherwise it will make the situation more serious. (7) Environment. Choose the best time and environment, such as after waking up early in the morning of a holiday, or in the second half of the night when there is no environmental interference, these environmental conditions can make the male partner more relaxed.