The most widely used treatment for premature ejaculation is mainly the Sexual Focus Training method. Sexual concentration training method: The aim is to change the goal of sexual activity from the completion of a task to the giving and receiving of sexual pleasure and sexual delight. Shifting the attention from the erectile phase of orgasm to the experience of sensuality improves destructive dissociative tendencies or spectator attitudes. Conditions for training: both partners feel appropriate time and environmental conditions for the room should be warm, comfortable, soft and dark light. Both spouses should preferably be naked, and the position should be in a way that is acceptable to both parties. Sexual concentration training includes 4 stages: non-genital sexual concentration training; genital sexual concentration training; vaginal accommodation; vaginal accommodation and activity. 1, non-genital sexy concentration training principles: (1) strictly prohibit sexual intercourse, can not fondle each other’s genitals and breasts. (2) to concentrate on caressing and experiencing pleasant sensations. (3) the position of the fondling can be flexible and varied, the basic requirements of both sides can look at each other’s whole body. (4) Stroking each other’s whole body, causing each other a sense of pleasure, but not stroking the genitals of both sides and female breasts. (5) A small amount of lubricant may be used on the skin when stroking. (6) The length of treatment can depend on the progress, generally the total time of the first treatment is about 1 week. (7) During the treatment period to strengthen communication, to understand each other’s feelings and needs. 2, the principle of genital sexy concentration training; (1) both husband and wife should take turns in the role of active and passive. (2) Continue to avoid sexual intercourse. (3) to prevent negative experiences, such as anxiety, irritability, inattention and even pain when stroking, can be used to avoid methods to reduce negative attitudes and concerns. (4) Sexual fantasy can be used. (5) If sexual anxiety is caused by one part of the treatment program, that part of the treatment should be abandoned. 3. Vaginal accommodation: After the experience of pleasure is obtained during genital sensual concentration training, experimental selection is started. A woman-on-man position with the female partner guiding the sexual activity is generally recommended. Vaginal accommodation can be performed for 4-7 days and both partners should focus on experiencing sexual pleasure and improving the ability to control orgasm. Patients with premature ejaculation are often anxious about vaginal penetration of the penis. Often, ejaculation cannot be controlled and occurs. This should be repeatedly trained until you can control yourself. 4. Vaginal accommodation and activity: At this stage, couples can perform penile activity during vaginal accommodation, which is the final stage of the sexual behavior therapy program. As men’s ejaculatory control improves and sexual function returns to normal, the main attention at this stage is to pay attention to the recurrence of premature ejaculation and to continue the aforementioned treatment methods if necessary.