To stimulate sexual desire, you still have to start with sexual stimulation. Simply put, sexual stimulation is a stimulus that can make people sexually excited, sexual impulse, sexual pleasure. Not only does it include the stimulation of the genital organs and sexual areas, but also the stimulation of sexually sensitive areas, as well as other sensory stimulation. A, the stimulation of reproductive organs and sexual areas Familiarity with sexual organs is the first lesson in sexual stimulation, such as the female vulva, vagina, male penis, scrotum, etc. (such as the female clitoris, male glans is relatively sensitive), through the sexual stimulation of these parts, can trigger the body’s sensitive nerves, so that the release of a chemical that can make people feel pleasure (endorphins), so that people reach orgasm. Second, the stimulation of sexually sensitive areas such as lips, neck, breasts, thighs, etc. are more sensitive parts, if the stimulation of these places can also cause sexual excitement. Generally speaking, women’s ears, neck, breasts, belly, etc. are more sensitive, so kissing and caressing these places can quickly provoke her sexual desire. While men’s nipples and below the navel are more sensitive, stimulating these areas can help increase their sexual desire. In addition, it should be noted that women’s desire for contact is stronger than that of men, so men give her more hugs, caresses, kisses, etc. before and after sex, all help women to maintain sexual vitality and reduce sexual indifference. Third, the stimulation of other senses 1, visual stimulation such as partners naked body, wearing erotic lingerie, or other ambiguous photos, videos, text, etc., can cause sexual excitement. According to statistics, the amount of information received by the human senses, visual accounts for 70% to 80%. Therefore, sexual life, visual stimulation is also very important, through visual stimulation can cause excitement of the sexual nerve center. This response mechanism is the same for both men and women, but compared with women, men react more obviously to visual stimulation, see the beautiful appearance of women, beautiful curves, etc., can help to stimulate male emotions, so that men more quickly ignite sexual desire. 2, auditory stimulation including sweet words, rapid panting, etc.. The love words between partners and the sound of panting in the ear, it is easy to make each other moved, so that people’s sexual desire. Foreign research shows that women are more responsive than men in terms of hearing, so in terms of arousing sexual desire, auditory stimulation is more effective for women. In addition, there are research results show that men are more sensitive to physical type of audio-visual stimulation, while women prefer emotional type, with storyline and emotional audio-visual stimulation. 3, olfactory stimulation including body fragrance, perfume, cosmetics, etc.. Such as women’s unique body odor, perfume or cosmetics and other emitted odor, not only can induce male sexual desire, but also can make people feel very comfortable, to give a pleasant suggestion. At the same time, the unique smell of sweat on men’s body sometimes fascinates women for it. References: [1] Chung W S, Lim S M, Yoo J H, et al. Gender difference in brain activation to audio-visual sexual stimulation; do women and men experience the same level of arousal in response to the same video clip?[J]. International journal of impotence research, 2013,25(4):138-142. [2] Shi Chengli. About orgasm[J]. Chinese sex science,2003,12(2):17-20.