The common behavioral problems of children are age-related. Preschool children often have psychological and behavioral problems, mainly separation anxiety, such as in Shenzhen, where some parents send their children back home because of work or are mainly raised by nannies. This can be characterized by crying and restlessness, inability to sleep well, and loss of appetite, which can lead to separation anxiety. This is a situation to be avoided. If the child needs to change his or her caregiver or be sent to another place for substitute care, a gradual transition should be adopted, such as having the new caregiver and parents together for a few days, and then slowly withdrawing the parents, rather than sending the child out suddenly. Once the child does not see his or her familiar caregiver, he or she may experience severe psychological anxiety and may become distrustful of people in the future. When it comes to kindergarten, many parents find it difficult to send their children to kindergarten, other children will generally adapt to the kindergarten environment after a week or so, but their children are still reluctant to go to kindergarten after 1-2 weeks, it is generally recommended that parents take a transitional approach, parents can first accompany their children, first half a day, and then pick them up, gradually let the child adapt to the The child can gradually adapt to the unfamiliar environment and reduce the occurrence of separation anxiety. Some parents find that their children are very disobedient when they are almost 2 years old, and that they must immediately meet any demands, otherwise they will lie on the floor and cry or throw a big tantrum. In fact, temper tantrums and capriciousness in early childhood is a very normal phenomenon, a manifestation of the child’s independence. The main solution is that parents must take the right response when the child throws a tantrum for the first time, do not let the child think that by throwing a tantrum can meet their own requirements, it is generally recommended that parents can adopt a way of ignoring the child when he throws a tantrum or is capricious, that is to say, leave him and tell him before he goes, you have to get up quickly and stop crying, or else mommy and daddy will not This time the child will observe that they can not get the attention of their parents, and can not achieve their own requirements, will slowly change their behavior. Content source: Dr. You Lai