Many people have misconceptions about the causes of male sexual disorders, thinking that they are all physical disorders, placing too much emphasis on medication, and ignoring the fact that male sexual disorders can also be caused by psychological factors. Because of the “love of face”, most men are secretive about their “sexuality”. Many ED (erectile dysfunction) patients privately looking for “prescriptions”, thus delaying the diagnosis and treatment. It is reported that the onset of male sexual diseases occur in the following three stages: one year before marriage to two years after marriage; ten years or so after marriage; menopause. The first stage: one year before and two years after marriage Before and after marriage, men and women are in a phase of greater emotional fluctuations. Nowadays, most young couples are only children, growing up under the doting parents. Personality is more self-centered, most of them will not think about each other, often due to sesame green beans of small things to fight. A young man and woman have been in love for several years and are ready to get married, when the two are in a period of great career development, work is facing enormous pressure, the two sides often friction to the man caused great psychological pressure, over time will affect the physical health of men, can not get an erection. The woman could not understand and scolded the man for fooling around outside. The two eventually divorced after two years of marriage. The reason for this is that both parties do not know how to be accommodating. Two people are completely independent individuals and friction is inevitable. As a male should show generosity, dare to say “sorry” first when there is conflict, to avoid the intensification of the conflict, which has a positive effect on their own health and both sides of the relationship. The woman should also understand the pressure the other party is under, to give tender and considerate. Stage 2: Married for ten years or so “After 20 years in a bed, it is inevitable that there will be some ‘aesthetic fatigue’.” This is a classic line from the movie “Cell Phone” that resonates with many people. There is a couple who have been married for twelve years and their child is in the third grade. In the first two years of marriage, the thing the husband looked forward to most every day was to get home early from work to spend time with his wife. Later, he opened his own company and began a life of leaving early and returning late. The woman did not pay attention to maintenance after the birth of a child, out of shape, plus do not pay attention to the care of the facial skin, looking old and not energetic. In the face of his wife, he felt that life is boring and can not raise the “sex” interest. The sex life of more than twice a week has become not once in half a month. If the couple’s life in the sexual life is not coordinated, each other’s skin contact is less and less, we need to create the atmosphere of love, and timely exchange of love feelings. Zhang Bin pointed out that the same unit of work of the couple due to the unit, home are facing each other, especially easy to produce aesthetic fatigue. To overcome the boredom between couples, must use innovative methods of adaptation to enrich the sexual life of couples, to rediscover the feeling of love. Even if the work is tired, men should try to help with household chores, together with grocery shopping, shopping, excursions, playing ball, watching movies, to relive the feeling of dating. Women also need to keep their image always new. Change the style of clothes often, try to use your husband’s favorite perfume, will bring each other new feelings. Stage 3: Menopause Can older people have sex too? The answer is yes. However, when men enter menopause, they will become grumpy and anxious, and keep hiding at home. A part of the male will appear in menopause to reduce libido, some appear erectile capacity decline, it is thought that there is no sexual ability There are a couple after more than thirty years of wind and rain, the original feelings have been very good, do not know when to start, sexual life is not coordinated, the wife found that her husband every time just perfunctory, so suspected that the man has an illicit relationship outside, often check the man’s underwear, eavesdropping on the phone …… In order to save the couple’s relationship on the verge of breaking up, they decided to go to the hospital together for a checkup. The two men and women were found to have menopause syndrome. After treatment and enhanced communication with each other, the relationship is back as good as ever.