If the child is timid, it will bring some obstacles to its growth and development, not only is it not conducive to the development of the child’s social skills, but also the efficiency of doing things will be greatly affected. More importantly, children are more likely to become dependent on their parents. Therefore, parents should try to help their children overcome their timid mentality, so that their children can grow up healthily. A child timid reasons 1, has suffered physical injuries such as serious accidents, physical disease injury, was beaten and maimed by people, torn by animals, etc.. 2, has suffered psychological injury such as family separation, environmental changes, family dislike abandonment, outsiders bullying sarcasm, self-esteem or self-confidence trauma, etc.. 3, parental care affect the child The way parents take care of their children may also affect the child, so that the child becomes timid. For example, parents usually like to do everything for their children, do not allow children to have the opportunity to be independent, children habitually dependent on parents, so the development of timid character. 4, the parents’ character affects the child Parents are a mirror of the child, so the parents’ words, actions and character image will become the object of the child’s standard of imitation, so the child is timid may also be affected by the parents’ timidity and cowardice. 5, parental education affects the child For example, usually teach children not to talk to outsiders, not to go out, not to do certain things and so on. In addition, if the parents often scold the child, the child will also be more timid and fearful. 6, the atmosphere of the family affects the child The growth of children need to be loved and accompanied by their parents, if parents only focus on their own work and ignore the care of children, or even children are often left behind as children stay at home, often unable to contact their parents, then the child’s timidity will be smaller, and personality will be on the introverted, withdrawn. Second, how to let the child overcome timidity? If the child is timid, it will affect the child’s future development, not only in learning life will suffer more frustration, but also, easy to make the child more and more dependent, seriously affect the child’s social skills, therefore, overcome timidity can not be delayed. Parents should usually spend more time with their children, take them out to see the outside world, and pay more attention to their children’s mental health. Parents should not ridicule the child’s timid character, but should try to correct the child’s character, so that the child becomes more lively and cheerful. Finally, parents can also strengthen the child’s psychological training, if the psychological timidity situation is serious, you can find a psychologist to assist in treatment.