The usefulness of the so-called “teaching according to ability” in parenting, I think it goes without saying that we all know, because the baby’s personality is different, parents have to choose the most suitable method of education for the baby, today we will take the “Tsinghua mother” parenting experience to do reference, to see how she educated her baby. See how she educates her baby. About eating: 1, parents are always worried about the baby’s nutritional intake is incomplete affecting physical development, in fact, malnutrition is not a meal two meals will lead to the situation, if the baby does not like to eat, parents had better not force the child, otherwise the child will appear rebellious, parents may not understand whether the baby is really hungry or eat too much, but the child is the most feeling, as long as the child is not a 2, although the baby eat meat, the benefits of physical development, but there should be a degree, the diet of vegetables to occupy fifty percent of the baby’s diet, thirty percent of staple foods, meat twenty percent, to meet the normal needs of the body can be. The apple and kiwi must be eaten every day to replenish vitamins and also improve body resistance; parents should not force their children to eat, if the stomach is propped up at a young age, then to the youth development period, the baby appetite, it is easy to eat too much, when you want to control can not be controlled. Early education is really important: 1, from my baby can talk, I began to try to encounter problems to ask his opinion, even if he does not understand shaking his head, I will still pretend to ask him, but if the baby did something wrong, I will seriously and seriously and he said the problem of correction methods, rather than to reprimand him, much less beat him; 2, when the child is older, I will give him plenty of time to play. He will also gain something while playing. Of course, at night I will set a bedtime, so that he has a sense of time to do something; 3, to cultivate the child’s heart: when the child is in elementary school, I will tell him, others will not be good to you for no reason, even if not good, you can not have negative emotions, if others are good to you, you have to learn to be grateful. Slowly, the child will have a fair mindset towards the society. It is also a very positive attitude towards dealing with hardships. The advice from the “Tsinghua mother”: 1. Treat all students with good and bad grades equally. When my child first started elementary school, he once came home and complained to me that a classmate asked him a question and he didn’t like to answer it. I told my child that this is also a process for you to re-consolidate your knowledge, and it will help each other, so why not? To give your child a positive way of thinking, so that when he faces the outstretched request of others, it will be more beneficial to others and themselves. 2. Be sure to respect your teachers. I will tell the child, the teacher’s criticism of you is also for your own good, the starting point and your mother’s education is the same, both hope to help you in the future, so be sure to respect the teacher, this society like the teacher to educate you so not many people. 3, parents and students complain about the teacher taught too poorly this matter. When my child and I complain that a teacher is being complained about by parents and students, saying that the teacher teaches too badly, I will tell him that it is not the teacher who teaches badly, it may be that the teacher’s way of education is not with you, in the face of so many students in the class, it is impossible to take care of everyone, and each student’s personality is different, and the method of education received is different. You can’t put all the mistakes on the teacher, otherwise the child will complain about the teacher will be heavier. 4, about reading ahead of time, when the mother should learn the spirit of water, when difficulties around the front. I will talk to my child before he enters junior high school, telling him the importance of the three years of junior high school, the impact on the future of high school and college, and will tell him the serious situation of employment in society today, so that his heart is prepared, of course, I will imply to him that parents are not able to help you find a job, it all depends on you, which will stimulate the child’s fighting spirit, will not kill his enthusiasm at the starting line.