It is said that “it takes 500 years of practice to get one life as a couple.” This shows how precious marriage is. But in real life, there are some people can not resist the temptation of the outside world, cheating behavior. If your husband has an affair, the wife must be properly handled in order to avoid the breakup of the marriage. First of all, frankly express their thoughts and communicate with their partners in time. For example, you can first ask him in a caring way: “Recently come home very late, is there any problem?” Then gradually state your thoughts and position, tell your partner your bottom line, and let him know you are attitude. If he does not want to divorce, he must unconditionally break off his relationship with other women. When communicating, you must remain calm and peaceful, never make direct accusations, abuse, or inquire about your partner’s phone or chat records, and don’t get carried away with your thoughts, which will make things worse. Be sure to stay calm, maintain your normal life, work, and try to avoid being alone. Secondly, reflect on yourself. Do you really know your husband? Is the foundation of your relationship strong? How much love and care have you given him? Does the other party need this kind of love? Reflect on the process of this marriage, whether you do your wife’s responsibility, through self-reflection, you may find that the cracks in the marriage long before the husband cheated on you. In marriage, if the other half cheated, it does not have to be a real problem or not doing well enough, but it must be a problem with the two people in the marriage, rather than a one-sided problem. Therefore, do not put the fault all on their own, but should actively identify the problems you have in the process of getting along, the right remedy, in order to better solve the problem of extramarital affairs, so that the husband really return to your side. Third, when the husband chooses to return to the marriage, to give full trust. For the relationship, what has happened, we have no way to erase, so we can only try to accept. Since you choose to forgive, the wife as the injured party, if you still maintain a high posture, without bending down, or still maintain a high degree of suspicion that he will cheat again, then your relationship will still face threats, and their own lives will be miserable. The right thing to do is to communicate more with your husband, give full trust, and return the love appropriately. Adults should be responsible for their own actions and more importantly, for their own choices. Since you choose to accept each other again rather than on a whim, you should be mentally prepared. Otherwise, they are not ready to forgive each other, rashly decided to continue to live, but in turn, more harm to themselves and their loved ones. Fourth, if the effort still can not be redeemed, let go is the best choice. If you make an effort, you will not be left with regrets, let go of the opportunity to find a rebirth instead. Surely love is not all there is to life, even if you lose it, there are still family and career! References: [1] Anonymous. Husband cheating, marriage still want [J]. 2010(2):57-57. [2] Anonymous. What should women do in the face of extramarital affairs [J]. Everyone’s health. 2015(15):76-76.