Family Sexual Focusing Therapy is a behavior-based therapy that is conducted in the patient’s home. This therapy is a method of treating mental sexual dysfunction that combines psychological and sexual behavior by focusing the senses on pleasure appreciation during the sexual act under the guidance of a physician, thus eliminating anxiety and worry and making the natural sexual state appear. The therapy is simple and easy to use, but skilled techniques are needed to deal with the actual problems of sex encountered by some couples in sex therapy. Sexual concentration training therapy is a technique for the treatment of sexual dysfunction, not only for men’s impotence, premature ejaculation and non-ejaculation, but also for women’s sexual indifference, sexual intercourse difficulties, vaginal cramps and lack of orgasm. A, the basic principle of sexy concentration training Most people with sexual dysfunction are caused by anxiety, especially due to operational anxiety when sexual intercourse occurs. Because of the fear of failure of sexual intercourse, the mental tension during coitus, this anxiety and fear of tension undermines the sexual behavior as a natural instinct, and over time, the formation of sexual dysfunction of the wrong behavior patterns. Sexual concentration training therapy is a re-education process that eliminates anxiety in the short term and results in the re-emergence of normal sexual behavior as a natural instinct. The patient couple should re-learn the correct sexual behavior pattern from the beginning, starting from mutual contact, touching, hugging, step by step, according to the prescribed time work, after each step feel concentrated to experience the pleasure given by both sides to each other, so that confidence and pleasure increase together, so that anxiety eliminated. In the process of learning the correct sexual behavior pattern, the original sexual dysfunction is naturally overcome. The purpose of sexy concentration training is to provide a method that enables couples to gradually rebuild their sexual relationship, which is composed of a series of small steps that can be used by couples to solve problems in stages. The doctor helps the couple identify the specific factors that maintain sexual dysfunction and plans to help the couple resolve the dysfunction. Special techniques are provided for couples to deal with specific problems. Third, the principles and guidance of sexy concentration training 1, the doctor to ensure that the guidance is clear. This includes the couple’s understanding of the methods used and sometimes the need to repeat the instruction and, if necessary, for the patient to reach a level of repeated understanding. 2.Obtain a detailed treatment response. At each stage of treatment, the couple’s response to the treatment should be obtained, asking them how it went, what they felt and what problems they had. Without knowing this, it is difficult for the doctor to be able to continue treatment with the patient couple. 3. Check the reasons for failure. If you can identify the cause of failure, is often the key to achieving my success in treatment. At the same time, the couple can also play a role in enhancing the interest and understanding of the treatment plan. 4, constantly revise the treatment plan. In response to the treatment situation, constantly revise the treatment plan, which is an important principle. Because in behavioral therapy, if a phase of treatment is not successful, you can not move on to the next phase of treatment, but to extend or revise the previous phase of the treatment plan. 5. Establish a “retrospective phase” of treatment. From the very beginning of treatment, a certain time should be designated as a “retrospective phase”. For example, tell the couple that they should review their progress and problems after three treatments. This can help the couple feel emotional and confident about their treatment. The doctor can also use this time to pause and analyze and modify the treatment plan. 6. Follow medical ethics and keep patients’ confidentiality. Most of the issues discussed during the treatment period are related to the patient’s private life, the doctor should follow medical ethics and maintain confidentiality for the patient. 7, treatment arrangements to consult the couple’s views. Such as how long and how many times the treatment is carried out, what time to schedule a follow-up appointment, etc. 8, the patient’s spouse to participate in the discussion of the treatment plan. The patient’s spouse must participate in the discussion of the development of a new treatment plan is the key to success, should put the previous failure behind them, and can treat sexual dysfunction as a major life event, to ensure that both spouses have plenty of time. 9, face up to the difficulties in treatment. Couples should anticipate the difficulties encountered in the treatment process and not see the failures and difficulties as serious relapses, but rather as a good opportunity for the treating doctor to help and understand their difficulties.