My husband has no trouble with erections and early ejaculation, but instead, he is slow to reach orgasm. Sometimes, when I can’t hold on anymore, I use my hand to help him out, but he is able to reach orgasm. What is this all about? We know that most men struggle with rapid ejaculation, but there are a few men who have difficulty ejaculating. They can have an erection without difficulty and have intercourse that lasts a long time and does not weaken, but they are unable to reach orgasm or ejaculate. Your husband should have selective ejaculation, which means that he normally ejaculates, but does so during masturbation or non-coital stimulation by the woman’s hand or mouth. This is due to unconscious resistance or insufficient stimulation during sexual intercourse, and the ejaculatory reflex is not “on” or does not reach the level of intensity that can trigger the reflex. It is likely that your husband grew up masturbating by pressing his penis instead of rubbing it, and after marriage, the stimulation of intercourse is completely different from the past, resulting in the inability to ejaculate during intercourse. It is also possible that the fear of pregnancy and various other factors may eventually lead to non-ejaculation. When having intercourse, you can accommodate your husband by taking measures to make the friction more stimulating, finding the most suitable position, holding him tightly, or consciously contracting the vaginal sphincter to enhance the stimulation of the penis. Often, one successful intravaginal ejaculation will permanently change the ejaculatory dysfunction.