Satya is the name of a famous contemporary American psychotherapist whose innovative school of family therapy is so well known in the world today that the model is named “Satya Model Family Therapy” in honor of this pioneer of family therapy. The Satya Model of Growth is an experiential process of spirituality. The most important feature is that it focuses on raising self-esteem, improving communication and helping people to live more “humanely” rather than just eliminating “symptoms”. She helps us to understand that every life has a unique growth path, and that whatever experiences and feelings old growth patterns bring us, they are worthy of respect. Sexual dysfunction, we will not expand on what exactly it means. In Satya’s research, human physiological activities are bound to have longing, and the longing for self-worth includes being loved, accepted, recognized, meaningful, valuable, free…etc. Because of these longings, experiencing sexual dysfunction is bound to make us feel painful. Where are the unmet expectations for this type of unmet expectation to deal with in general? Ms. Satir describes five ways that people deal with unmet expectations: Let go of the unmet expectations. Find alternative ways to meet the expectation. Decide to keep an unmet expectation and consider reducing the cost. Work to meet the unmet expectation. Return to the level of desire to work and find a new way to have high self-worth. Then when each different patient faces this problem of sexual dysfunction, their response can be similarly explained: 1. Give up, since it doesn’t work, don’t do it, it’s not like you can’t live without it anyway. 2, alternative, there are some ways to solve the demand, such as by hand. 3, reduce the requirements, the time aspect, the number of times can be reduced. 4, accept the reality, you can find many reasons to comfort yourself, tired of work, old age. 5, seeking a breakthrough. This is the best in theory, but technology is not infallible, there is also the probability of failure. No matter how to deal with it, when we are done dealing with sexual dysfunction as an unmet expectation, we also come out of the bondage of expectation and feel free, rather than being overwhelmed. Of course a scientific approach is needed in the process of seeking a breakthrough, setting a good goal and moving forward gradually.