Nowadays, the economic conditions of many families are getting better and better, and after several generations of accumulation, some families have more and more houses and more money. Such favorable material conditions, if there are no obvious bad habits, not involved in gambling, drugs, etc., usually on the work, even if not to work, but also several lifetimes without worry. Some parents have changed the traditional concept of being diligent and frugal for thousands of years, and do not want their children to go out to work and suffer hardship and aggravation. These situations, as long as they do not affect others and themselves, I personally can agree, do not encourage but can accept. However, there are some people who need to take responsibility for their families and have a job to raise their children and support the elderly, so they may not work. Regardless of their family’s disgust or family disputes, they continue to be nerds and geeks, which affects their lives and the lives of their families, causing a lot of family conflicts and instability in the family and society. When family members or friends around the emergence of anorexia, anorexia of the end of the work, need to be alert. Often these manifestations: 1, this job is so little salary, our family lacks this? 2, I’m about to find a job, I’ll go to my friend’s unit, he will want me, I’ll contact him again; 3, I’ll go to find a job, what’s the hurry? I’ll go to work after a while; 4. I’m not well now, I need to take care of my health, I’ll go out when I’m better; 5. I don’t have to buy anything, why do I have to work; 6. All these things. All these remind us that we need to pay attention and guidance. These abnormal performance is related to the psychological unhealthy. We tend to think that he is a lack of responsibility, laziness, good and bad work, etc., but when you think about it, in fact, they are often accompanied by depression or with anxiety, too high or too low assessment of their own, performance is very arrogant or performance is very low self-esteem, often at a loss. During the process of growing up, family influences and social influences form negative stimuli that affect his work attitude as an adult. Many times there is nothing to do, sulking, no friends, interest, playing games, or even gambling. As a family member or friend, you need to give him psychological guidance on the one hand, and on the other hand, you have to have an understanding that maybe he is sick. Instead of just hating the iron, leading to a vicious circle, more autistic, low self-esteem. It is best to go to the hospital for some testing, to do the depression and anxiety scale, and perhaps see the crux of the problem. If depression and anxiety are present, psychological guidance is needed in due course, and if the effect is not significant, medication can be administered. Such treatment is currently available in both Chinese and Western medicine. Often the results can be achieved, thus changing the fate of a person, a family. In such cases there is also the suggestion that the earlier the intervention the better. For anorexia, we tend to think in terms of psychological aspects, in fact, gnawing will also be the case. Active intervention will achieve results.