Hernia surgery is usually performed using both implanted and non-implanted artificial patches, with the former allowing couples to live about a month after surgery and the latter taking about three months. 1. Implanted artificial patch surgery: Implanted artificial patch is tension-free hernia repair. Tension-free hernia repair surgery is less painful and quicker to recover. If the recovery is good and the wound is not infected, you can have married life about one month after the surgery. 2. No implantation of artificial patch: This is the traditional method of hernia repair. Traditional hernia repair surgery, recovery is slower, about three months before you can have married life. If you have sex too soon, it is easy to cause a large tear in the surgical wound, which can also lead to a recurrence of the hernia. It is also not advisable to be overly active within one month of hernia surgery. You need to consume more fresh fruits and vegetables, and avoid constipation or heavy physical activity, which can lead to increased abdominal pressure.