Avoidant dependent personality means that there are both avoidant and dependent personality problems. Avoidant personality problems are mainly in interpersonal relationships, especially intimate relationships have very serious problems, may refuse intimate relationships, or even no need for intimate relationships, often behave very indifferent or even cold, lack of interest in life and the pursuit of life, always in life to avoid too much intimate contact, will be in intimate relationships, especially in the relationship between husband and wife, friends in a lot of frustration As for codependent personality problems, they are mainly caused by the lack of interest and pursuit in life. As for the dependent personality problem, it is mainly a pathological personality trait, mainly because the patient significantly lacks self-confidence and independence, has a poor self-image, is even gentle and tame, is not competitive, avoids interpersonal conflicts, and always wants to rely on others. If there are both avoidant and dependent personality traits, emotional and interpersonal instability can easily occur, but the most fundamental reason is that the self-image and orientation are particularly unstable. If you have any of these problems, you must actively seek treatment, especially considering psychotherapy.