Many men are just aphrodisiacs, in fact he does not know that the best aphrodisiac for men is self-confidence. When it comes to “aphrodisiacs”, everyone is no stranger to them. In recent years, many aphrodisiacs or health products have sprung up on the market, as if men are “not” to rely on medicine to revive the masculinity of men. But there are three drugs, not all drugs can be eaten, and not all men have to take drugs. In many cases, taking medication does not solve the problem. Some men feel that married life is “boring” or “unmotivated” and think that only drugs can eradicate the disharmony in sexual life. However, they ignore many important aspects of life that are closely related to sex. In particular, they ignore the important role that “self-confidence” plays in sex. In the clinic, I can often meet some physiological no problem, but is unable to be able to sex life of men, the reason is to sex “not sure”. Some men are anxious and nervous because of their lack of experience when having sex for the first time, which can easily cause poor erection and premature ejaculation. If you don’t know enough about this, you may have doubts about your sexual ability, and thus in the future sex life, there will be operational anxiety (will I be like the last time) and anticipatory anxiety (can I be better than the last time). This puts men into a vicious cycle of poor erections, and the more they worry about it, the more they “can’t get hard”. Prior to the 1970s, male surgeons believed that 90% of erectile dysfunction (ED) was psychological in nature. Although we now have a better understanding of the causes of ED, it is easy to see that psychological factors still play a major role. The internationally popular male sexual function questionnaire currently places an important emphasis on men’s self-confidence in their erections. This shows how important it is to establish a correct understanding and develop male self-confidence to “get up”.