As the saying goes, “A thousand pieces of gold can’t buy a companion in old age”. Usually, children are busy with work and do not have much time for themselves, so single elderly people have the idea of reorganizing their families when they meet the right person. Experts say that the elderly reorganization of the family, the health and happiness of later life will help, so as children, when the elderly proposed to reorganize the family, can not be obstructed, but to put themselves in the shoes of the elderly. Reorganization of the family justifies the psychological health of the elderly experts say that the elderly reorganization of the family, in addition to bringing convenience to both sides of life, both sides take care of each other, reduce the burden of child support, from the psychological point of view, the harmonious elderly married life will also significantly improve the level of psychological health of the elderly. On the one hand, for some widowed elderly people, remarriage helps to get rid of the grief after the loss of a spouse, as soon as possible to pass the bereavement response, improve the quality of survival, and promote the level of mental and physical health; at the same time, it helps to eliminate the sense of loneliness, uselessness, and enhance the happiness of the elderly; in addition to meet the emotional needs, the elderly remarried, mental communication, mutual comfort, and can find a person who can share their feelings and The elderly can find a person with whom they can share their feelings and talk about their emotions. In addition, the healthy elderly to more than seventy years old is still a husband and wife life requirements. So remarried elderly, can be stimulated through mutual love, to meet the physiological needs, so that the two sides of the life more happy and satisfied, through the harmonious life of the couple can also be to a certain extent to relieve the elderly “old” feeling. All these, no matter how filial children are not able to achieve. Avoid comparison psychology Although the elderly reunited family will bring a lot of benefits, but experts say, compared to young people, the elderly reunited family will also have more problems, such as economic problems, inheritance problems, how to treat both children’s family problems and so on. Therefore, in order to improve the marital happiness of the elderly after remarriage, elderly couples should pay attention to some issues in their lives. First, try to avoid the psychology of comparison, especially the widowed elderly, often with the deceased partner of the couple, remarriage often use the current partner and the deceased partner comparison, a comparison is easy to find this is also bad that is also bad, and then affect the feelings of the couple. Secondly, the problem of couples grinding. Young couples still have the process of bonding, let alone halfway couples, because there has been a long time of married life, it is difficult to accept a new kind of married life, therefore, in life, pay attention to communication, to each other to maintain a tolerant mentality. Third, the property issue. Properly deal with the attribution of property to both parties and the distribution of property after the death of one of the spouses in a way that is acceptable to both parties. Children should not be obstructive For elderly people to reorganize their families, children often have a great say. However, as children, they should take a rational attitude toward their parents’ family reorganization. Of course, for parents to remarry, most children and parents have deep feelings, from the heart, worried that parents remarry after the transfer of feelings, will be left alone, and at the same time for the departed relatives are nostalgic feelings, it is difficult to accept the surviving relatives of emotional “betrayal”, and are not willing to share their parents with others (the other elderly children). Some children are also worried that their parents will remarry. Some children are also worried about the inheritance of their parents’ property after remarriage, which may prevent the elderly from reorganizing their families. Experts emphasize that for children, when being filial to their parents, they should put themselves in the shoes of the elderly and consider their real needs and feelings, rather than just thinking about themselves. For the elderly, their happiness in their later years, in addition to material needs to be satisfied, more is the spiritual needs. The role of a partner in spiritual needs is something that children cannot take on. If children are obstructive, it will affect the parents’ happiness in their later years, and in serious cases, it will lead to emotional problems such as depression, and even tragedy in serious cases.