Couples after a period of time after marriage many wives often complain that their husbands have low desire, a long time unwilling to have sex, feel that their husbands are not interested in themselves, and even suspect that their husbands have an affair, or problems with sexual function and other speculation. As a result, the relationship between husband and wife is tense, disconnected, mutual complaints. Harmonious sexual life is an important factor in family harmony. Bad sex life is also one of the important causes of divorce for young couples. In fact, sex life is also fluctuating, just like the curve, there are peaks, troughs and platforms. After a period of time after marriage sex life enters a plateau, not as passionate as it was at the beginning. Many men are physically and mentally exhausted under the pressure of work and life, some people no longer treat sex as a pleasure of life, but as a husband’s responsibility, a task that has to be completed. Over time, some men have shown a reduction in sexual function. Long-term sexless or less sex life makes love into affection, couples into “brother and sister”. Sexual life is a two-way street. A good sex life requires not only the efforts of men, the wife also plays an important role in the “booster”. The couple should work together to manage love, so that love “fresh”, to maintain the platform period of sexual happiness. How to make love “fresh”? The wife plays a vital role. The wife should pay attention to her own image, to maintain the attractiveness of her husband. The reason for this is that you should not neglect your own maintenance because of your age or because of your children. After entering middle age, women’s faces may be faster than men’s aging, if not pay attention to care, over time may cause “aesthetic fatigue” of the husband. The wife should reflect the gentle characteristics of women, not too strong in the home. Most men still like the gentle and considerate women. Men outside often have to bear the work, life, social and other aspects of pressure, hope to get care and understanding at home, and a strong wife will make the husband’s pressure is not ventilated, thus causing conflict and conflict. Couples also need to often relive the romantic love, such as reminiscing about the good old days together, revisiting the old places when they were in love, to create a romantic atmosphere. Or couples can go on a trip together, leaving behind the pressure of work and life, to relive the world of two people. These “preservation” methods may be able to rekindle the husband’s passion. Husbands should also respond positively to their wives’ gestures, for example, frequent compliments will make the wife more motivated, a small gift on holidays or anniversaries will take her back to the happy times of the past, and daily hugs and kisses are a great way to enchant her. Love needs to be watered and cared for, and needs to be carefully managed by both spouses so that the platform of sexual bliss is maintained without dropping. You don’t need a car or a mansion to manage love, a simple word or body language can do it.