What should I do if I suffer from premature ejaculation?

  Patient: When I was 16 years old, I started masturbating due to poor self-control. By now it has been 10 years of masturbation history. Now when I have sex, I ejaculate after a few strokes. I had a visit to Guangzhou Union Male Clinic and was told that I was circumcised and had a sensitive dorsal penile nerve. I had circumcision and dorsal penile nerve sensitivity surgery. But after the surgery, it is still the same as before. I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to do this. No girlfriend, afraid to find a girlfriend. So, sex is done with people you don’t know! Have sex all at once! Cure premature ejaculation Laboratory and examination results: inflammation of the prostate and sensitivity of the dorsal nerve of the penis.  Young men are very prone to ejaculate too quickly during sexual affairs due to the strong sensitivity of the glans at the beginning of sexual life, and many of them have long foreskin or prepuce, plus some masturbation habits, resulting in habitual premature ejaculation. Some of these patients can solve this problem through the harmonious cooperation between men and women during the subsequent sexual life, but many patients cannot control the magic switch and make ejaculation freely even after circumcision, abstaining from masturbation and having sex frequently due to their physical condition.  The experience of solving such a problem is that according to the symptoms, signs, tongue and pulse of the individual situation, the use of traditional Chinese medicine with certain Chinese medicine; a certain cycle to reduce the sensitivity of the glans as the main purpose of the “desensitization treatment”; for both men and women together with professional guidance on sexual behavior therapy. Many patients have achieved very satisfactory results, and eventually they are able to put and take as much as they want.  There are reports of the use of topical medications to solve premature ejaculation, reports of the use of strong stimulating topical medications to reduce the sensitivity of the glans, but the later effect is poor, and some patients may even experience a reduction in the sexual excitement of the glans, so we do not agree with the pure “pulling the seeds to help grow” method.  Some patients accept the advertising, want to take the penile dorsal nerve blocking to solve the problem, think about it, the nerve is good to block, want to connect again can be difficult, some of our patients have received surgery can have intercourse 1, 2 hours, become an iron man, athletes can not eat ah, and there is no sexual pleasure he knows best. This I am strongly not advocate.  The current clinical very effective is the sexual behavior therapy, masturbation method gradually reduce the sensitivity of the glans, but this method requires a doctor to do detailed guidance, many patients and friends degree is not easy to grasp, easy to fail or not the desired effect.  The actual second ejaculation, specific time, adjust the position, control the frequency amplitude rhythm of sexual life, distraction, the use of reduced glans sensitivity condoms and other methods combined to try, if you can not comprehend, to the local standard large hospital male or urology to find a doctor to guide look.  The only few times you have sex or a passing sex life can not specifically judge or reflect the state of your sex life, choose a suitable girlfriend, get along with a stage, talk about marriage, and then two people work together, live together, and get the ideal satisfactory sex life.