From a number of “how to do” can be seen, you are now in a very distressed, very contradictory state. The person you love has moved on, which is difficult for everyone to accept, if it were me, I would also feel very painful, very reluctant. I see that you have made a lot of efforts to try to win back your feelings, but the other party answered you with “it’s over”, that is, the 6-year relationship has ended, she decided to break up with you and fall in love with another man. As adults, you and she know very well what this choice means, but you are not willing to face this choice. You, with a hint of fantasy, to be a “waiter”, but you are really willing to just “wait”? You do not want to. You are afraid that your feelings will fade, “texting, calling”, giving her pressure. So, have you seriously thought about it? What role are you playing now? Is this the life you want? Are there better options for you? She, perhaps in front of your attack wavered, and perhaps just to comfort you, said “she also knows that the man will not keep her forever like you, she also feels good not long ……” as an adult, if she does not see this relationship, why should choose it? We all make decisions, always abide by the principle of “avoiding harm” and make decisions that are as beneficial to us as possible, if you think about it, you will know how good your chances of reconciliation are. I appreciate your positive attitude in the face of difficulties, put down the phone and immediately go home to her efficiency and determination, as well as the subsequent expression of deep love, you have put a lot of effort into this relationship, but can not change the status quo, then, what you have to do next, is to accept the reality. The loss of love is painful, you have to allow yourself to suffer, the development of any emotion, need a process, is the proverbial “let time wash away everything”. The next few months, you may be very low, very sad, very frustrated, this is normal. You need to take this pain with you and do what you need to do. When you really miss her, you can confide in a close friend, you can go do something you normally enjoy, or you can go play sports, such as running or playing ball, sports are a good medicine to fight the blues. Before you can’t resist texting or calling her, think, is this what she wants? If the answer is no, try to control yourself. It’s not terrible to lose your feelings, but don’t lose your dignity over it. Respecting your girlfriend’s choice is the best way to love her. In addition, this relationship may leave you with some experience, for example, when your employment is very stressful and you are in a bad mood, you can confide in your lover directly instead of just throwing a tantrum at her. Any intimate emotion needs to be managed by adding bricks and mortar instead of destroying it as you wish. I believe that after reflection, your ability to grasp emotions will be greatly improved, and complete a very important period of growth in your life. Then, with your sincerity and heavy love, you will have a girl that you love and also love you, and that is truly a fair and worthy love to keep.