”Doctor, can premature ejaculation be cured?” This is the question that patients are most concerned about, and it is also a question that is very difficult for doctors to answer. Because up to now, there is no recognized standard for curing premature ejaculation, and the duration and satisfaction of sexual life is affected by various factors such as sexual excitement, foreplay, environment, atmosphere, physical condition, frequency of sexual life, tacit understanding of sexual life, female partner’s reaction condition, vaginal tightness, etc. Each factor will affect the quality of your sexual life, and it is not simply a matter of duration. If you are satisfied with your sex life this time, it doesn’t mean you will be satisfied next time! Many clinical patients ask for “cure”, “complete treatment”, “no recurrence” and so on, making it difficult for doctors to answer. Therefore, in clinical practice, I often ask patients about their expectations (I think it is necessary to discuss this issue with patients before treatment) – how much time do you hope to achieve for most of your sexual life through treatment? Through the comprehensive treatment of premature ejaculation and the improvement of the patient’s sexual skills and the sexual understanding of the couple, it should be cured if the satisfaction rate of the couple’s sexual life is above 50%. The length of time is not the ultimate goal of treatment for premature ejaculation patients, getting a satisfactory and harmonious sex life should be the pursuit of premature ejaculation treatment, to achieve this goal, in addition to the treatment of doctors, but also requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife. After all, sexual life is a matter of two sexual partners, and that wonderful music needs to be written by two people together.