The size of the penis seems to be a topic that both men and women care about or at least like to discuss. Many men are not satisfied with the length of their penis and try every possible way to find the secret formula to expect to make it slightly bigger, and the urgency of their feelings and the devotion of their wishes are really touching. But for the quality of sex life, size is really that important? We might as well change the perspective and see how women look at this write sexology articles easy to understand, humorous, in the Western countries have a lot of hardcore fans. when asked about the size of the man’s penis how good, she did not have a funny tease: I can not give the exact number, because with men in bed I never carry a ruler with me. However, practice makes perfect, I can tell you responsibly: the size and performance in bed really has nothing to do with the size! Some sources say that the average size of a man’s penis is around 12.93 cm (the size varies greatly depending on the ethnicity). However, many women are convinced that a smaller penis than this size can also bring them the best sexual experience. A big penis doesn’t mean big pleasure, and bigger doesn’t mean better. If you don’t believe me, just look at Jonah Falcon, who still holds the world record for the longest penis size – 34.3 cm! But in reality, intuitively speaking, apart from that scary number, his penis has nothing to make women jealous. Some studies have found that women are not born size nuts, but are easily influenced by girlfriends who like to gossip about the size of a man’s penis. In fact, it is natural to be curious about whether someone’s crotch is big or small, and I have to admit that women do sometimes gossip about men’s penises, but this is just a psychological effect, just like shopping for goods, women shop at the mall to buy things that are first turned upside down, and then pick the most practical to buy. However, not many women will simply for the size of the size, and the world to find the largest penis. But compared to women, men have a less dashing view of penis size. Studies have found that men who have smaller penises tend to be more anxious about size than their sexual partners. In fact, the size of the penis stops changing significantly at a certain age, a fact you can hardly change. If a man is always too worried about his size, it will obviously have a very negative impact on his sex life. Self-anxiety can affect every aspect of a person, especially when that anxiety is related to his or her body. When a man commits to sex with this “I am inherently inadequate” psychological implication, it is very difficult to enjoy it, including other forms of sexual intimacy. Many women do not understand why their boyfriends always feel anxious about themselves during sex, and sometimes even have difficulty maintaining an erection, and sex has become a painful ordeal for them. In fact, this is often due to the boyfriend’s self-perception that his penis is not big enough. However, some men are also more open-minded and can even joke about it. For example, there is a columnist named Stephen-O Glover, penis growth, but he is not ashamed of this, he mentioned in his autobiography “Professional Idiot” a little secret, said he had a tattoo, tattooed: I have a small sausage (‘I Have a Small Weiner ‘). Sounds vulgar, but it’s honest, and many women think that’s sexy, don’t they? Of course, it can’t be said that male anxiety about penis size is completely meaningless. Alan Weider once wrote a book called “Year of the Cock”, which is filled with the author’s mockery of his own penis and himself. In the book he writes about “13 benefits of having a small penis”, one of which is that having a small penis will make you 14% more likely to experience the joy of jizz than others. We do not know if his statistics are accurate, but at least for most women who can accept anal sex, if they encounter those “pillars”, even if they use more lubrication, they will not let it close to their ass half. Many of the women surveyed in the study took the trouble to tell the researchers that our sexual sensations are actually very subjective! The size of the penis is a very visual aspect, but there are many other aspects that can affect the quality of sex, for example conversation is important, or at least you have to feel what your partner is thinking, which is important. As for the penis, it’s as big as it can be, and you can’t expect to grow a new one overnight anyway, so it’s better to focus on what kind of sexual pleasure you can give or receive. If your partner really cares about “fullness”, there are enough and big enough dildos and vibrators in adult stores for you to choose from, and it’s up to you or her personal preference as to when and how to use them. Many studies have confirmed that bigger doesn’t mean better or more pleasurable. Sexual enablers are not always the kings of size. This is somewhat similar to a man’s height, where some people always think that the taller they are, the more manly they appear. This is not the case, no matter how tall you are or how big your penis is, it is just a natural creation. In short, women will never break up with someone just because they have a small penis size, and they will never hook up with someone just because they have a large size. Although not representative of all women’s views, most women still believe that instead of wasting time obsessing about size, they should think about how to spend quality time together. Remember, size is for measuring, and pleasure is to be felt. Don’t hang on the size tree because sometimes even if you are not small in size, just because someone says it is, if you can’t let go of it and keep obsessing about it, you will end up being “sexually uninterested”. In fact, compared to the size of the penis, women are more interested in the “size” of the man’s brain, but even so, many women still decided: never bring a ruler before going to bed!