Impotence is the inability to insert the penis into the vagina for sexual intercourse because of the inability to get an erection or a weak erection during sexual intercourse. The causes of impotence are mostly psychological, organic such as prostatitis, vesiculitis, neurological factors, endocrine factors and so on. The reason for this is psychological, organic, such as prostatitis, vesiculitis, neurological and endocrine factors, as well as physical and environmental factors. Premature ejaculation refers to the phenomenon of ejaculation before or just before the erect penis is inserted into the vagina during sexual intercourse. The causes of premature ejaculation are mostly psychological, but also habitual, organic such as prostatitis, vesiculitis, neurological factors, endocrine factors, etc. First of all, patients with impotence and premature ejaculation are very painful in themselves. The wife of the patient should understand her husband and support him in psychological birth. Encourage him to treat without any verbal or behavioral stimulation to her husband, so that her own husband can build up confidence in treating impotence and premature ejaculation in order to achieve good results. 1.Psychological treatment A large part of impotence and premature ejaculation is psycho-psychological, therefore, it is necessary to analyze the patient’s psychology and take certain methods, or suggestion, or transfer, or aversion therapy, etc., to correct some wrong sexual concepts and eliminate the patient’s anxiety, thus achieving the effect of preliminary treatment. 2, drug treatment Chinese (into) medicine for premature ejaculation treatment effect is good, but require patients to adhere to take medicine for a period of time before. Some western medicines can cause drowsiness, so they are more effective for patients with insomnia, anxiety, tension and other symptoms. If the effect of Chinese medicine does not reach the ideal effect of the patient after taking a certain course of treatment, you can add western medicine, but western medicine has a certain dependence, which can help the patient to build confidence through the psychological barrier period, and some drugs can be taken regularly when sex is needed. 3, sexual behavior therapy that sexy concentration training. It should be clear that sexual incoordination is a joint participation of both husband and wife in the treatment helps to understand the patient and reduce the patient’s psychological pressure, so as to achieve a higher efficacy. 4, the establishment of a healthy lifestyle regular exercise, less exposure to pornography, balanced nutrition, the treatment of impotence and premature ejaculation day long help a lot.