The etiology of the disease premature ejaculation also has a combination and interaction of psychological and biological factors. It is considered that premature ejaculation is a disorder caused by psychological processes mediated and reinforced by its own organic defects. Obviously, there are many psychological factors associated with premature ejaculation, the most studied being lack of sexual experience, low frequency of sexual intercourse and fear and anxiety. The relationship with the spouse is also the exact factor that affects premature ejaculation. Therefore, any comprehensive treatment measure must include the involvement of the sexual partner, which is the general principle of sexual therapy and the participation of the couple. The approach is the behavioral training therapy that has been developed in the last 30 years or so. Behavioral training therapy for premature ejaculation has brought satisfaction to couples who subscribe to this therapy and actively train according to it. This is done by the wife stroking the glans and stem of the penis with her hand until ejaculation is imminent, then stop stroking, and then re-stimulate the penis by the wife after the ejaculatory urgency of excitement has disappeared. The patient can gradually tolerate the stimulation and control not to ejaculate, and finally achieve the ability to tolerate continuous stimulation for a long enough time without premature ejaculation. In this training process, the couple can carry out anything according to the wishes of both parties, kissing, hugging, body caressing, however, just can not rush to sexual intercourse. If both partners think it has lasted for 5 minutes. Or even 10 minutes, when the desire and willingness to have intercourse, you can insert and ejaculate the semen. The wife’s participation is very important, there must be a woman to control the man’s emotions, there must be a woman to insist on stroking stimulation, and there must be a time when the woman approves before eliminating the semen accumulated during training by sexual intercourse. Behavioral therapy for premature ejaculation can also be continued during the couple’s sex life after some experience has been gained. First of all, you should control the amplitude and speed of penis pumping or suspend pumping so that sexual excitement is reduced, and then pump when the penis is about to weaken. At this point, the woman must control her emotional needs, stabilize herself, stabilize her husband, otherwise it will be half-hearted and both sides are frustrated. In this way, the penis hardens one erection at a time, significantly extending the duration of pumping, pumping amplitude and speed, both sides are satisfied when the woman is about to reach orgasm or has lost control of the orgasm is immediately ejaculated both sides together into the emotional peak.