The hectic pace of work has caused many working women to delay having children, and it is not uncommon to see them get pregnant after their 30s. “It doesn’t seem to be that difficult to have a baby whenever I want. However, many women around us who are ready to have children suddenly find that they can’t get pregnant even though they have been calling for it for a long time. Today, the rapid development of medical technology has created one miracle after another in helping women fulfill their desire to become mothers. However, gynecologists are not omnipotent, there are many infertility patients really infertility reasons are still unsolved mystery, experts say, in the infertility patients, there are a considerable part is based on psychological reasons. 1, infertility patients psychological pressure China’s infertility incidence rate is rising year by year, due to environmental pollution, work pressure and other factors, some areas of infertility patients even more than 20%. Fertility is supposed to be the innate ability of every human being, and usually infertility patients suffer great mental pressure during the treatment process after being diagnosed. “Treatment of this disease are two years, but still no hope, spent so much money, not to mention the spirit can not stand the stimulation of the six cycles of ovulation treatment, two artificial insemination, a laparoscopic surgery, two tubal imaging. This week I had an imaging, and the doctor said my left tube is blocked, and the right one may not be open. To make matters worse, hubby has oligospermia and low motility. Why is it so hard to have a baby!” Xiaolin had almost lost her confidence in fertility treatment. During the course of treatment, once they learn that the treatment has failed, infertility patients will inevitably develop emotions such as fear, pain and sadness, and they are also accustomed to escaping from reality. Infertility patients often show easy nervousness and anxiety during the treatment process, and some of them even show the characteristic symptoms of depression, such as sleep disorders and negative misanthropy. These negative emotions are obviously detrimental to their treatment. However, most patients choose to keep the topic of “infertility” a secret, and even fewer take the initiative to seek help from psychologists. Many patients do not actively seek help from psychologists because they believe that infertility is a physical defect and feel uncomfortable discussing their defects with psychologists, whereas it would be more effective in relieving their psychological pressure if they can get the counseling of their family members (mainly their spouses). Secondly, there is not much professional psychological counseling available for these patients, and it is difficult for doctors to conduct effective psychological counseling because they do not yet understand the psychosocial characteristics of these patients. Patients also have limited access to information channels for psychological counseling, which also contributes to their reluctance to take the initiative to receive psychological counseling. 2.Psychological counseling helps to get pregnant The anxiety and nervousness of infertility patients not only affects the treatment, but also affects their family life and marital relationship, in which the status of female patients in the couple is lower than that of normal couples, and female patients are sometimes faced with the end of the “can’t have a child, we need to get a divorce”. Ningbo Hospital of Chinese and Western medicine combined infertility and sexual medicine specialist director Wang said, about 10% of infertility is unexplained, which is largely due to stress, infertility patients to travel, or to adopt a child after a number of examples of successful pregnancy. Therefore, it is very important for infertility patients to release stress and relax. Psychological counseling and therapy in conjunction with infertility treatment will assist in the treatment of infertility. According to a study by Dr. Alice Doma of Harvard Medical University in Boston, psychological counseling activities can significantly increase the pregnancy rate of women who have been unsuccessful in conceiving for one or two years. The expert divided 184 similarly endowed infertile women into three groups, one focusing on stress reduction, one on emotions and experiences, and one on formal medical treatment. As a result, among the women who participated in the activities of the three groups for a whole year, 55% of the women in the first group got pregnant, 54% of the women in the second group got pregnant, and only 20% of the women in the third group who received formal medical treatment got pregnant. It is hoped that infertile couples will get rid of the psychological haze as soon as possible, face themselves squarely, cooperate actively with the treatment, and realize their wish of having a healthy baby as soon as possible.