What does premature ejaculation mean? It is difficult to have a recognized statement about premature ejaculation, I personally think that whether or not the patient suffers from premature ejaculation, the patient himself said, not by the doctor or even equipment to judge, as long as they think that their lovemaking time is not long enough, they are not satisfied, they can be called premature ejaculation, why do you say so, this also needs to start from a few years ago a case of premature ejaculation patient consultation process. Five years ago in the summer, a strong man in his 30s walked into my clinic and asked what was wrong with him, he said he came to see premature ejaculation, and then said: the last two months sex time is short, only two hours or so, when surrounded by patients, both men and women, all jaws dropped, several female patients are in a moment of surprise after the desire to laugh can not, hold the face full of red, simply escape from the clinic, let loose a big laugh, inside and outside the clinic It took half a day to restore calm. I looked at the patient with a puzzled face and asked: You really came to see premature ejaculation, not a joke, how long can you do in the past? The answer was more than three hours! The patient’s face was full of sincerity, not a trace of the meaning of the joke. It seems that I really have to take him seriously as a premature ejaculation patient. Two hours of sex and premature ejaculation? If the patient hadn’t said he had premature ejaculation, I wouldn’t have diagnosed him as premature ejaculation in any case. It seems that the patient should be the one to say whether he is suffering from premature ejaculation or not. In the diagnosis of premature ejaculation, the patient takes the lead, as long as he is not satisfied with his lovemaking time and thinks it is short, he can be diagnosed as premature ejaculation, as long as he thinks he is okay and is satisfied with his lovemaking time, even if he gets in and gets out at the first touch, he can be considered normal. Premature ejaculation should be considered as a “psychological need that cannot be satisfied” or “too high standard disease” of the patient. The length of lovemaking is not the standard, but the patient’s own satisfaction is the real standard! How does premature ejaculation happen? 1, psychological premature ejaculation ——– high standards, strict requirements of the product! The result of never being satisfied and having a hard time filling the ravine! Psychological disease. Three minutes, want five minutes; five minutes, want ten minutes; ten minutes, want half an hour; half an hour; want an hour. The body’s ability cannot meet the psychological needs, and thinks it is suffering from premature ejaculation. 2, pathological premature ejaculation, such as prepuce, prostatitis, glansitis and other local diseases that cause the glans to be too sensitive and unable to tolerate stimulation. 3, subhealthy premature ejaculation, such as weak constitution, kidney deficiency, first recovery from a serious illness, subhealth, etc. Our body is a highly intelligent organization with self-protection function, and in order to prevent physical overdraft and health overdraft, the body’s self-defense function comes into play. The act of making love in a sick or subhealthy state is not good for the body, but people have the tendency to fight for their lives for pleasure, especially in sex, when the body’s protective mechanism will kick in to forcefully terminate your sexual behavior, thus premature ejaculation happens. How to treat premature ejaculation? 1, the heart disease also needs to be treated from the heart, hope that they run as fast as Liu Xiang is not wrong, but can not run as fast as Liu Xiang is normal, not a problem, of course, there is a goal with hope, after efforts can not be like Liu Xiang, but there will be progress, especially meet a good coach, most premature ejaculation and this same reason, the doctor just play a role of coach. 2, for premature ejaculation that cannot tolerate stimulation locally, it is possible to treat local lesions, including reducing nerve sensitivity, which can be expected to have a therapeutic effect. 3, the premature ejaculation of the physically weak, temporarily it is advisable to strengthen the body, to be strong before seeking pleasure, so as not to cause physical exhaustion, whipping the sick cow.