Premature ejaculation refers to a disease in which the time of sexual intercourse is so short that ejaculation occurs before the erect penis is even inserted into the vagina or before the penis has just been inserted and pumped, so that normal sexual activity cannot take place. There are still differences in the clinical diagnosis of premature ejaculation. In China, it is called premature ejaculation when the penis does not enter the vagina or when ejaculation occurs within one minute of intercourse; abroad, it is called premature ejaculation when ejaculation occurs before female orgasm more than 50% of the times of intercourse. Strictly speaking, the ejaculation of the man’s penis before contact with the woman’s genitals or just before contact occurs during sexual intercourse, so that it is not possible to have sexual intercourse is called premature ejaculation. As the process of sexual response varies significantly between individuals, it is not possible to artificially specify how long it takes to reach ejaculation as premature ejaculation.
Not all cases of premature ejaculation require treatment. It involves factors such as age, physical fitness, emotions, sexual experience, frequency of intercourse and the speed of orgasm of the couple, which has a lot to do with the couple’s perception of sexual life. If the ejaculation is too fast and the woman feels satisfied and does not feel bad about herself, there is certainly no need for treatment. The first time a newlywed couple or the first few months of sexual activity, due to high nerve excitement, men may just touch the female sexual organs, or penis just into the ejaculation, for this premature ejaculation phenomenon, can not yet be called premature ejaculation, with the continuous adjustment of sexual life and friction, sexual life has experience, this phenomenon will naturally eliminate. In addition, the couple separated for a long time after marriage, reunited after a long time, it is inevitable that the sexual impulse is stronger, and it is common for men to ejaculate too quickly, which can not be regarded as premature ejaculation. Epidemiological studies have shown that 75% of men feel poor ejaculation control, thus indicating that rapid ejaculation is “universal”.
In general, if the following conditions occur, you should go to a male specialist clinic: those who can’t help ejaculating when exposed to stimulating images or language, or when in physical contact with the opposite sex, such as hugging or kissing; those who ejaculate as soon as they touch their sexual organs on a regular basis; those who were satisfied with their sex life in the past, but have recently shortened it significantly and the female partner has not been satisfied for a long time.
The correct understanding of premature ejaculation.
1, sex is not the longer the better, both parties can be satisfied, more than a certain limit, but will bring physical fatigue and mental tasteless.
2, the diagnosis and treatment of premature ejaculation is a “husband and wife thing”, the couple needs to work closely together, coordinate with each other, mutual understanding, and not blame each other or blame themselves, especially the woman can not complain and blame the man (the woman’s thoughtfulness and encouragement is vital to the treatment).
3, masturbation is a “double-edged sword”, too frequent will trigger premature ejaculation, but delayed ejaculation through masturbation and can be treated premature ejaculation, the key is how you grasp yourself, and how to use it to treat.
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5, sexual life using male rear position or female top position, due to the saving of energy, the action amplitude of small stimulation weak, can extend the sexual life time to varying degrees.
6, in sex wear condoms or even double condoms can reduce the friction between the penis and vagina and the degree of stimulation, prolonging sex time.
7, sex life using distraction, moving and stopping and other sexual intercourse skills can effectively prolong sex time.
8, adjust the time of sex, after rest or morning after waking up energetic, emotional relief, this time sex can not only effectively prolong sex time, and can improve erection strength.
9, premature ejaculation can also be caused by inflammatory stimulation of the genitourinary organs such as prostatitis and some systemic diseases such as hypertension, diabetes, hyperthyroidism, etc., mental tension, panic, anxiety and bad environment can also trigger premature ejaculation, so premature ejaculation should be considered comprehensively, not just blame the kidney deficiency, not to privately take the kidney and fix the essence of drugs.
10, adequate sleep, a happy mood, a healthy body, good habits, no alcohol and smoking, no holding back urine, etc. are not negligible in the treatment of premature ejaculation.
11, the foreskin is too long, the coronary sulcus and the ties are too sensitive should be early circumcision.
12.The premature ejaculation can be cured by adjusting the mood, building confidence and insisting on moderate physical exercise.
13, Chinese medicine + acupuncture + behavioral intervention therapy can effectively treat premature ejaculation and delay ejaculation time.
Several effective behavioral intervention therapies are attached.
1. wearing condoms during intercourse (preferably condoms with time-delay function).
2, try to slow down the frequency of pumping during intercourse.
3, change the position of sexual intercourse, side position, male rear position, female top position can effectively delay the time of sex, or coitus when the feeling of ejaculation to change the position of sexual intercourse.
4, distraction during intercourse, when there is a feeling of ejaculation (preferably before the feeling of ejaculation), you can use watching TV, recall horror scenes and other methods to transfer the excitement of the penis, to wait for the excitement to subside after intercourse again, repeatedly two or three times after ejaculation.
5, masturbation training method: hand stimulation penis erection and masturbation (spouse stimulation will be better), to stop stimulation when almost ejaculation, after the excitement subsides again stimulate the penis, so repeatedly two or three times until ejaculation. When self-confidence is increased, then move on to sexual intercourse training, using the female superior position or male posterior position, wearing a condom to have slow intercourse, until the feeling of ejaculation pull out the penis, wait until the feeling of ejaculation subsides and then have intercourse, and so on until ejaculation. This method will enable the patient to tolerate continuous stimulation soon, so that the tolerated stimulation becomes stronger and longer, but it must be noted that the intensity and time are kept below the threshold of the ejaculatory response in order to achieve the therapeutic effect.
6, the combined use of the above methods will have a more obvious effect.
7, the treatment of premature ejaculation is a complex, long-term process, treatment can not be achieved overnight, generally need 3-6 months to be obvious results, patients must be patient, adhere to the treatment, do not be anxious. After the above treatment methods are fully mastered, the sexual skills will be improved and improved, and the sexual life time will be gradually extended until it is satisfied, and there is usually no relapse after the cure.