The parents-to-be love before the baby is born (pregnancy fetal monitoring) 1, before the baby is born, the father-to-be should gradually enter the role of “father”, to communicate more with the baby, can talk to the baby in the belly every day, singing, which can enhance the exchange of feelings with his wife and children, and promote fetal development. You should also care more about the mother-to-be, learn about pregnancy and childbirth, and go to maternity school classes with the mother-to-be to experience the hardships, happiness and responsibilities of pregnancy and childbirth. 2.What can mothers and fathers do for their babies at the moment when they are about to arrive? First of all, the father-to-be can still seize the opportunity to actively communicate and interact with the baby in his belly. In addition, at this time, the mother-to-be will soon be in labor, the father-to-be should help the mother to do prenatal self-monitoring, remember the due date, and be prepared for the hospitalization of labor, once the signs of labor, to send his wife to the hospital in time. 3.How to communicate more with the baby? A, touch interaction: caressing the abdomen B, language interaction: speaking softly with the fetus C, music interaction: listening to music, singing communication From the middle of pregnancy, the father and mother-to-be can interact with the baby in the belly, can often be gentle stroking the abdomen, while speaking softly with the fetus or singing communication, this “family” interaction not only This “family” interaction not only stimulates the baby’s brain development and language development, but also enhances the feelings of the father-to-be, the mother-to-be and the future baby, relaxes the mother’s mood and enhances confidence in childbirth. 4, for the health of the fetus, the choice of music is very important, otherwise it can only be counterproductive. The music is mainly soothing and beautiful light music. Music has certain requirements in terms of frequency, rhythm, loudness range, etc. In terms of frequency, avoid damage to the fetal hearing nerve in the high pitch area. The high frequency sound in music above 2000 Hz should be so low as to be inaudible so that it is safer for the fetus. In terms of tempo, it should not be too fast, otherwise it will cause adverse reactions such as accelerated fetal heartbeat. Loudness – avoid too loud sound, which may lead to fetal hearing loss. The sound level should be 75-80 decibels. In short, in the purchase of music tapes, not to hear whether the music is good, but to see whether it has been tested by medical and acoustic. Only music that fully meets the physiological requirements of hearing can really play a role in developing intelligence and promoting health. 5, the way to listen to music to the baby should be like this Early in pregnancy, the fetus does not yet have hearing, but pregnant women can enjoy music on their own, pleasure. During this time there are no obvious restrictions on the choice of music and the number of times to listen to it, as long as the pregnant woman is in a relaxed mood. After 5 months of pregnancy, give music lessons to the baby, in order to auditory training for the fetus, from 5 months onwards, you can listen to music twice a day, 20-30 minutes each time, the choice of music should be strictly in accordance with the requirements. Singing songs: pregnant women can hum a few of their favorite lyrical songs, or beautiful and rhythmic ditties, etc. every day. When pregnant women humming songs, in addition to giving the fetus hearing stimulation, pregnant women’s body fluid vibration is also a beneficial stimulation of the fetus. 6, language interaction is also an important part of the development of fetal language skills is a shortcut to the fetal period is the language induction of the child. This induction includes daily language induction and systematic language induction. Daily language induction means that parents treat their babies as if they were already born, and talk to them whenever and wherever they can (love language, life language, polite language, etc.) to tell the fetus about their day, and use walks and shopping as a form of social learning Systematic language induction means that the fetus is selectively and hierarchically told stories and sung songs using picture books and children’s books for five minutes at a time. It has been found in experiments that the fetus especially likes to listen to the sound of his father’s speech and can express his satisfaction with gentle rocking movements under the sound of his singing and stroking. When the baby cries after birth, the mother often cannot make it quiet, while the father can make it quiet or fall asleep as soon as possible by singing the baby’s familiar songs and stroking action, so the father-to-be should actively participate in language fetal education. 7, touch interaction is through the fetus touch, can help communicate between the mother and father and fetus feelings, and conducive to the growth and development of the fetus. However, some parents-to-be do not have the right approach to touching and it does not work. So what exactly should be done for touch interaction? The first thing you need to do is to pay special attention to the right amount of force, not too light or too heavy, so that your fingers can feel the fetal body, 2 times a day, a few minutes each time. 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The mother-to-be can feel the fetus moving in the womb after 18-20 weeks of pregnancy, which is the fetal movement. After 30 weeks of pregnancy, the mother-to-be can spend one hour each in the morning, noon and evening to count the fetal movements, the total number of 3 fetal movements x 4, which is the number of fetal movements in 12 hours. The method of counting fetal movements: the fetus moves once, and there should be a pause between two fetal movements; when counting, you can take the same object as a marker. For example, you can put a button in the bowl once the fetus moves. 12 hours fetal movement count: Pregnant women count fetal movement for one hour in the morning, in the afternoon and in the evening, and multiply the sum of three times by four to get the total number of fetal movements in 12 hours, which is about 30 times or more. If the number of fetal movements is more than 30 times in 12 hours, it means that the baby is normal, less than 20 times in 12 hours means that there is a possibility of abnormality, less than 10 times is a danger signal that the fetus has hypoxia in the uterus, so you should consult a doctor immediately. If you can’t measure fetal movement 3 times a day, you can measure fetal movement for one hour every night, which can also play the same role. Fetal movement is more sensitive to hypoxia than fetal heartbeat and can detect abnormalities faster, which is more meaningful to safeguard the fetus. Therefore, the mother-to-be should count the fetal movements carefully. 9. Signs of hospital admission: Once the following symptoms appear, such as paroxysmal abdominal pain (contractions), water breaking (vaginal flow), redness, etc., the mother-to-be may be in labor and needs to be admitted to the hospital in time.