What should I do if I have “empty cannons” during sex?

  ”Blanking” is the absence of ejaculation. For non-ejaculation, especially functional non-ejaculation, which accounts for about 90% of cases, prevention is more important than treatment.  Ejaculation is a complex physiological process in which nerve endings and central excitation are two important aspects, but the former is more important. Most of the patients with ejaculation are not excited enough due to the nerve endings, the key is that the stimulation threshold is too high and the intensity of stimulation is relatively too low to cross that “threshold”. Therefore, the most important thing is to provide technical guidance to the doctor, based on a detailed understanding of the patient’s condition, on how to enhance local stimulation. The application of sensual concentration means that the wife can induce ejaculation.  Under the guidance of the doctor, the use of electric massagers to induce ejaculation can often achieve unexpected results. It has been reported that about half of the patients can return to normal in the first massage treatment, while some other patients can be cured by more than ten treatments. At the beginning, it takes 10-15 minutes of continuous stimulation, and later just 5 minutes to achieve the purpose of ejaculation. The stimulation area is mainly at the glans and tether, but can also be moved up and down along the penile shaft. The massager is both a high-grade massager used in hospitals (also known as electronic sperm extraction instrument), but also a variety of commercially available models of male health care massager.  The doctor should educate the patient about sex, so that they better understand the characteristics of the male and female response cycle, to dispel concerns, build confidence, and correctly grasp the skills of sexual life, which will often get better results. It is helpful for the doctor to guide the patient to obtain successful ejaculation. Often, having one successful intravaginal ejaculation will permanently change the ejaculatory dysfunction.  The harmony of the couple’s relationship will also be of great help in the treatment. Since the main contradiction in the performance of ejaculation in the couple’s relationship is in infertility, it is important to actively do a good job for the female partner, encourage her to try to accommodate the male partner, and take the initiative to cooperate to assist the male partner in treatment. Such as sexual life can take some measures to make the grinding phase of sassafras can strengthen the sexual stimulation, in order to make the male side to get a stronger sexual excitement, the female side should take the most appropriate position, and tightly embrace the male side, or consciously contract the vaginal sphincter to strengthen the stimulation of the penis.  Chinese medicine treatment also often has a good effect, commonly used formulas are big ripe ground, Chinese wolfberry, Fubanzi, mulberry, cuscuta, shamrock, Wu Wei Zi. Western medicine treatment has not progressed much, mainly because most of the drugs used have large side effects and are difficult for patients to tolerate. The commonly used ones are ephedrine, levodopa, etc.  For those who cannot be cured at the moment and are eager to have children, artificial insemination or in vitro fertilization can be chosen.