Once a pregnancy is diagnosed and the decision to give birth is made, the mother-to-be is doomed. For the planned pregnancy of the mother-to-be mood of course to be happy and proud of the main, while some pregnant women because of the unplanned pregnancy, their mood is complex, sad, both the joy of motherhood, but also a lot of concerns, especially if you’ve been drinking alcohol, smoking, eating drugs and angry quarrelling, worry, fear and even anger is more entangled in the heart of the mind. Joy, anger, worry, sadness, fear and panic is a normal human emotional way, but if long-term or excessive in a certain abnormal psychological emotional state, it will eventually affect the physical health of people, that is, the so-called God first disease and after the shape of the disease. For the mother-to-be, if the long-term poor mood during pregnancy, in a bitter depression, impatience and worry, anger and fear, nervousness and anxiety and other complex moods, will be related to each other through the neurophysiological, neuroendocrine, neuroimmune and other intermediary mechanisms to constrain the whole body systems, the function of the organs, directly affecting the physical and mental health of the pregnant woman, but also lead to changes in the intrauterine environment of the fetus to seriously interfere with the growth and development, manifested in weight and body weight of the fetus, and the development of the baby. Growth and development, manifested as weight and height is lower than the same months of age, and even affect the fetal brain development, brain malformation, cleft lip and palate and other congenital malformations or personality abnormalities. Foreign scholars Leuterman according to the attitude towards pregnancy and childbirth will be divided into four types of 411 pregnant women. (1) Ideal type mothers: these mothers are happy to be pregnant, have good expectations for the future delivery, and do not lack the confidence of success, so that they have only minor pain in labor and delivery, and give birth to a child who is mentally and physically healthy; (2) Degenerate type mothers: these mothers do not want to be pregnant and do not pay attention to hygiene and the protection of the fetus during pregnancy, the result is that preterm babies and low-birthweight babies are more likely to be born, and the The babies are prone to diseases when they grow up, and there are also many mental abnormalities; (3) Dual-type mothers: these mothers want to have children because their husbands, relatives, friends and other people around them want her to have children, but the psychological test shows that she unconsciously refuses to have children, and most of the children in this case are prone to digestive disorders; (4) Cold mothers: these mothers do not want to be mothers for a variety of reasons (e.g., they are busy with their work, their income is low, and they do not have the conditions to be mothers, etc.). This type of mother is unwilling to give birth to a child for various reasons (such as busy work, low income, not having the conditions for motherhood, etc.), but psychological tests show that she unconsciously wishes to have a pregnancy, so the fetus will have a combination of the mother’s more complex emotions, and will be prone to a difficult labor, and will be born with a dull sensation and weak body. Scientific research has found that mothers-to-be are mainly anxious during pregnancy, followed by depression, and that introverts are at high risk for psychological problems. Character determines destiny, and the mother determines character. From the time of conception, the parents’ temperament will mark the child’s character, especially during the 10th month of pregnancy, the pregnant woman’s emotional changes and way of thinking will directly affect the child’s character. A peaceful and happy mother will pass on comfort and joy to the fetus, while an impatient and depressed mother will make the fetus irritable and depressed. Studies have shown that when a pregnant woman’s mood is depressed or fluctuating, the frequency and intensity of fetal movements are several times higher than the norm. This excess of fetal movement can last for hours, even though the bad mood lasts for only a moment. If this bad mood of the pregnant woman continues for several weeks, then this excess movement of the fetus will continue throughout the fetal period. Man is a product of his environment. What kind of person a person will grow up to be, what kind of character traits and behaviors he/she will have, depends to a large extent on his/her childhood or even the environment he/she was exposed to during his/her fetal period. Mr. Wang Fengyi, a modern educator, said: “The father is the sky, the mother is the earth; if the sky is clear and the earth is peaceful, a child will be born as a prodigy; if the sky is not clear and the earth is not peaceful, a child will be born as a muddle-headed person.” The mother’s attitude towards the fetus during pregnancy will have a great impact on the mental and physical health of the fetus at birth and after birth. Therefore, we advise mothers-to-be to always think of the baby in the womb during pregnancy and need their own joyful emotions and good mental state, when encountering upset things to learn to let go, to have Buddha degree, tolerate the world’s intolerable things. Be sure to maintain a calm state of mind, treat people with generosity, and deal with things harmoniously. Let go of all the factors that are not conducive to the development of the baby, tolerance and open-mindedness, to overcome bad emotions with reason, from the depths of open-mindedness. When you really can not get rid of the bad mood, it is recommended that you according to the usual preferences, by taking a walk, listening to music and singing, shopping, and friends and family chat, etc., to release their feelings. Studies have shown that there is a significant correlation between the mother-to-be’s emotions during pregnancy and the pregnant woman’s own personality type and character traits and the level of concern from her family. So the family, especially the husband’s considerate care emotional support is the best psychological regulator of pregnant women, the mother-to-be angry more from the father and the father-to-be angry with the father-to-be, it can be seen, to get a healthy and lovely child, in the formation of his moment, the father-to-be and the mother-to-be to make a concerted effort to begin to invest, care and love, so that the baby is not born in the abdomen can be nourished by love, so that the birth of a healthy, happy, smart, cheerful and lovely child! A healthy, happy, smart and cheerful cute baby.