Kidney deficiency usually refers to the disharmony of yin and yang in the kidneys, which usually leads to a series of problems in the body, such as impotence, premature ejaculation, reduced libido; irregular menstruation or amenorrhea, etc. These can affect the quality of life of both sexes. In daily life, there are many causes of kidney deficiency, such as overwork, poor diet, overexertion, excessive intercourse, emotional disorders, trauma, drug damage, etc. In any case, patients should abstain from sexual intercourse during the treatment of the disease and should not indulge in sex. During the treatment period? physically capable of having sex, but the quality of the patient’s sex life will be reduced because kidney deficiency will impair certain sexual ability and sex will lead to semen leakage, which is not good for treatment. In the system of Chinese medicine, room labor refers to two aspects, the first is excessive indulgence and the second is too much desire. Although the second one does not have substantial intercourse, it still affects the kidneys and adds to their burden. Therefore, when the kidney deficiency, patients should not have sex, and also to clear the mind, with the doctor’s medication as well as food therapy to slowly nourish the body, so that the kidney deficiency can be completely cured.