All parents say: “I attach great importance to my child’s education, even more than other parents”, and most of them say: “I have tried to send my child to the best early childhood center, the best kindergarten and the best elementary school, I don’t know how many connections I have made and how much money I have spent, but my child does not want to go to kindergarten”. Yes, all parents attach great importance to their children’s education and do their best for their children, hoping that their children will become successful as soon as possible, but “there are never any so-called gifted prodigies, but only strong-willed parents”. That is to say, if you want, as long as you have the determination, miracles may happen in your family …… So why are children reluctant to go to kindergarten? A. Weak adaptability and social skills At home grandparents look at the baby always think he is small, afraid of the wind and the sun, do not go out, do not communicate with children, speak little people, eat bags, coats, pants, resulting in poor language skills, did not learn to get along with people skills, in addition to their own toys in the corner, no children and he play together, so in the class is not popular, so also do not like to go to Kindergarten. At home, grandparents and parents always think that their children are small and are little emperors. As a result, children do not know how to go to the toilet, eat and dress themselves after they enter kindergarten. Children who do not have these basic living skills will definitely feel uneasy and lose face in the group life. Children’s self-esteem is very strong and powerful. Third, not getting praise and poor performance Some toddlers do not know anything because they do not have initiation education at home, and they are very capricious, naughty and good at hitting people. Some of them are competitive and care about their teachers’ praise. Once their teachers praise other students, they will be “frustrated” and afraid to go to school; some of them are hands-on and don’t handle their friendly relationship with other children well. Some children are very hands-on and do not handle friendly relationships with other children, so they often quarrel and fight with children, and after the teacher criticizes them, they have no face and thus have the psychology of rejecting kindergarten. Parents can prescribe the right remedy for their child’s phobia by providing different guidance for different reasons. Children never lose at the starting line, they lose in the hands of their parents. …… All the faults, shortcomings and bad habits of children can be changed very easily from their parents’ education.