In the male clinic, there are often male friends by the wife “escort” to see a doctor, which indicates that modern women in the couple’s sex life is playing an increasingly important role. In fact, the husband often does not have organic reasons, often due to the wife’s unintentional “just a word” to the husband’s tension and anxiety, caused by functional sexual dysfunction, and even bring infertility worries. A, “you can not ah” – easy to lead to psychological erectile dysfunction of the husband some wife sex life is often too much the pursuit of perfection, requiring the husband to be able to “rise at the sound” at any time. Every time can be “tough and erect”, often a little dissatisfied, will ask the husband “you can not ah”. This will seriously undermine the husband’s self-confidence and even bring serious psychological barriers to the husband, which will make the occasional erection difficulties or erectile insecurity, become frequent, and eventually lead to serious erectile dysfunction (commonly known as impotence). In fact, due to fatigue, mental tension and other reasons, it is normal for men to occasionally experience erectile dysfunction, or weak erection, etc. In this case, the wife should be sympathetic to the husband, good words of comfort, to fully recover or choose a day to have sex again, so that not only can avoid the occasional erectile dysfunction, but will make the husband more confident, erectile capacity to improve. Second, “how do you still not ejaculate ah” – easy to lead to the husband functional non-ejaculation disorder some wives due to fear of painful intercourse, fear of pregnancy, low libido or due to poor living conditions, work and rest time inconsistency and other issues, sexual life often “The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing. In serious cases, the husband is even unable to ejaculate during sex. This is a functional type of ejaculation, most of which is psychogenic in nature, often due to the male partner’s sexual dysfunction for various reasons, the inhibition of the ejaculation center is strengthened, and the ejaculation threshold cannot be reached, or there is a premonition of ejaculation, but it is extinguished instantly. Of course, there are many reasons for this situation, if it is a problem for both men and women, you need to consult a specialist, if it is the environment and other objective reasons, you need to actively improve the living environment, adjust the routine of both sides, in order to make sex life more harmonious. Third, “this month must be pregnant ah” – easily lead to psychological infertility modern society, the pace of life is increasingly accelerated, the couple often as soon as the intention to have children, hope to conceive as soon as possible, this fertility time urgency is often more obvious in the female side. In order to conceive as soon as possible, wives often calculate the ovulation period, the task of the husband “must be replaced this month on the pregnancy ah. As a result, it turns out that the more you want to get pregnant, the less you get pregnant. In fact, female ovulation is influenced by mental factors. If you are nervous and overly anxious, it can lead to endocrine disruption and inhibit ovulation, but once you relax, you will resume ovulation. A happy mood is also very important for men. When the cerebral cortex is in a good state, the whole body’s neurological and endocrine function is stable, the sperm production function of the testicles can play normally. A bad psychological state can affect a man’s ability to make sperm. When men are often in frustration, loss or mental overstimulation, their sperm count will be greatly reduced, or even completely lose the ability to make sperm. Therefore, anxious to have children or infertility couples should not blame each other, blame, both should not worry a lot, blame this and that, to be calm, remain optimistic, which is the basic conditions for normal conception. In addition, a harmonious sex life will also greatly increase the chances of conception. The “purpose” of sex is too strong, but it can also bring psychological erectile dysfunction or ejaculatory dysfunction to the husband, affecting conception, and the desire for speed is not achieved. Therefore, sexual life, the wife’s “understanding” is very important, do not let the inadvertent “only words” destroy the harmonious “sex” life.