Many experts agree that both psychological intervention and surgical treatment are important for stoned women, so they give the following advice to stoned women: 1. Perform oral mucosal transplantation vaginoplasty as soon as possible, don’t wait until you have a boyfriend or do it when love comes, it will make you embarrassed and tangled. After the surgery, your vagina will be open and you will no longer be a stone woman, so you don’t need to mention your previous experience in front of men and don’t consider it a dishonorable history, just treat it as a healing process. This will not give men too much heart pressure; 2, good faith confidentiality is the first priority, there is no need to be too frank and bring shadows to both sides, since they are not sure of the consequences after the truth, it is better to enjoy the blessings of love first. 3.Adjust your mind, don’t pursue perfection for anything, and don’t magnify the surgery because of some troubles brought after the surgery, our deficiency is very small in comparison, except for vaginal atresia other gonads and organs are normal and will secrete love juices, you can enjoy all the happiness on earth after the surgery. 4. Learn more about normal women’s gynecological knowledge so that when something happens to the vagina after the surgery, you will not think first that it is the surgery itself, but the normal reflection of the vagina.