In our clinical work, we feel that many patients are irritated and ridiculous, and that infertility is completely self-evident. A young couple, who had been married for a few months, found that they were not pregnant and started to check for “infertility”. The doctor recommended that the woman be tested for ovulation and instructed to have intercourse. Physiotherapy and enemas! The doctor said it’s okay to continue the pregnancy. It turned out that the long-term tension, the man’s sexual function again problems, again “hang water”, Chinese medicine, acupuncture, but the effect still does not work, sperm test has also become worse. Finally, the doctor concluded: bad fallopian tubes, sexual dysfunction of the male partner, abnormal sperm quality. In vitro fertilization. The couple finally decided to do IVF and never had the confidence to get pregnant on their own again. Analysis: 1, 92% of couples without contraception, normal sexual life, no major problems with sexual function, are able to obtain a natural pregnancy within two years. 2, most of the medical tests and treatments should have corresponding indications, especially invasive tests like tubal imaging, which can only be done after considering the existence of tubal inaccessibility, and expanding the indications at will is not only unhelpful but harmful. 3, fertility is a natural process, although modern pregnancy is a little more difficult, there should not be so many infertility, so many people need assisted reproduction. In the full enjoyment of sex brings pleasure, the purpose of childbirth naturally achieved, every day anxiety, every day calculations, the second mechanical intercourse, not only low conception efficiency, I’m afraid the marriage will also go wrong! Let’s see, this young couple’s infertility is not their own “see out”. And, is the success of IVF, the spiritual and marital rifts can be repaired?