Whether you are preparing or not, your uterus and ovaries are preparing for childbirth every month, from sunrise to sunset, from menarche to menopause. Women only pity themselves for the hard work of coming to menstruation every month, but they do not know that it is the disappointment and bright red tears of a busy uterus for a whole month, when they know that no fertilized egg is coming. If a woman asks for a recipe to defend her uterus, it is better to go with the flow, when you should have a child to have a child, do not want to have a child when a good contraception, not easily abortion tossed and hurt the uterus, is the uterus the greatest mercy and favor. 1, the dominant follicle “lightning” on the scene every month after the female menarche, there will be a new batch of follicles in the ovaries began to grow and develop, each menstrual cycle occurs only once ovulation, generally only one egg, but synchronized into the development of a dozen follicles. After recruitment and selection, only one of the best and strongest follicles usually reaches full maturity. At the moment of ovulation, the ovulation hormone from the higher center is like a fleeting lightning bolt in the sky, its energy is only enough to stimulate one follicle to ovulate, at this time the dominant follicle makes a magnificent appearance, the rest of the follicles can only follow the fate of the “spare tire”, according to the apoptotic procedure of atresia, and permanently retired from the stage of history. 2, “warm hand” fallopian tube Before ovulation, the fallopian tube seems to anticipate everything, its umbrella end is like a warm hand, gently and soothingly covering the surface of the ovary. The moment the egg breaks through the ovary and is expelled, it is immediately picked up by this little hand and sent into the lumen of the fallopian tube. With the peristaltic movement of the fallopian tubes and the pushing of a large number of cilia, the egg is transported to the more spacious abdominal region of the fallopian tube where it quietly awaits the arrival of the sperm. The uterus, the first bed you sleep in, is the most real player in the entire fertility process. Along with the recruitment and development of the egg, the endometrium begins to grow incessantly. 14 days before the next period, the egg matures and is discharged, whether or not it encounters sperm, the uterus ignores it and continues to proliferate and thicken. On average, 14 days after ovulation, the uterus lays down a warm, thick bedding and looks up to find that the sperm and egg have not met, and realizes that it has been stood up. It is not discouraged at this point and decisively orders all the thickened endometrium to be stripped from the uterine muscle wall, along with the blood flowing from the ruptured blood vessels and expelled from the body, which is called menstruation. Immediately afterwards, along with a new wave of follicles entering development, the uterus picks up its spirit and starts all over again. 4. Periods are actually tears of disappointment For fertility, whether you are preparing or not, your uterus and ovaries are preparing every month, week after week, from sunrise to sunset, from menarche to menopause. Women only pity their monthly period hard, but do not know that is the uterus busy for a whole month, in the knowledge that no fertilized eggs come, disappointment and bright red tears. 5, uterus defense, don’t let TA become desert women if you ask the recipe for defending the uterus, it is better to go with the flow, the time to have children, do not want to have children when good contraception, not easily abortion tossed and hurt the uterus, is the greatest mercy and favor to the uterus. After multiple abortions, the amount of menstruation usually gets less and less, and if the endometrial damage is severe and uterine adhesions occur, women may experience permanent amenorrhea at a young age, and the uterus becomes a desert without a soul, completely losing fertility. In severe cases, even IVF does not have the opportunity to do. 6. Non-existent IVF The in vitro part of IVF is the doctor-assisted union of sperm and egg to become a fertilized egg, but the embryo cannot be kept in the test tube and must be implanted in the uterus within a limited time. If the uterus is broken and the soil is sandy, it is futile for the doctor to create embryos outside the body, no matter how successfully they are transferred into the uterus, and no matter how many embryos are transferred into the uterus at the same time, no matter how much he or she expects and presumes to plant a wide variety of seeds. If the endometrial damage is not so severe, one can barely conceive a child, but a poor soil cannot guarantee a harvest. The disappointment and shock of repeated miscarriages due to poor foundation is a physical and mental torture and devastation to women. 7, energy “engine” placenta Even if the child is barely conceived, the risk of placenta previa, placenta adhesion, placenta implantation will increase exponentially because of repeated scraping. The placenta is the engine that provides energy to the fetus, and if there is a problem with the placenta, the growth and development of the fetus in the uterus is bound to be restricted, and the child will grow small, light in weight, and have poor resistance, which is often referred to as “congenital deficiency”. In fact, not all congenital things can be relied on to God’s head, the foot bubble, not a few are not their own walk out of the. 8, “painless abortion” is not really painless medical conditions are not good, abortion without anesthesia, on the raw scraping, cruel and lack of humane. In the beginning, the negative pressure to attract the embryo and placenta, often not very painful, followed by a full-scale scraping of the uterine cavity, this scraping near the end, that is, near the uterine muscle layer, will trigger a from the lumbosacral leap to the heart and brain of the pain, the abortion bed has been biting the lips of the woman, most of this time can not help but to scream, which is a kind of heartfelt memory. After the embryo and other gestational material is removed, the uterus rapidly contracts, and the doctor will find that the suction tube, which was going in and out of the uterus smoothly, is now firmly sucked by the contracting uterus. At the same time, the unique sensation of the spatula scratching the myometrium and passing through the metal instrument to the doctor’s hand is called “myoacoustic”, similar to the sound and touch of fingernails scratching directly on a rough wall. In textbooks and teachers, the presence of uterine contractions and the feeling of “muscle sound” means that the scraping is sufficient and that it is time to stop. In those days, there was no ultrasound monitoring, so contractions, “screams” and “muscle sounds” were the three main factors that prompted the doctor to stop in time. 9, enjoy the “sex” also need to pay attention to contraception to bed can only create spiritual excitement, physical pleasure, but if not ready to take responsibility for conception, childbirth and offspring, must do a good job of contraception, a moment can not be neglected, a moment can not be careless. The pill, IUD, skin burial, condoms, even if you choose any one with your eyes closed and use it correctly for a long time, can give you nearly 99% protection. Although the success rate of scientific contraception can not yet reach 100%, but definitely higher than any one vow to marry you, said to support you, said to be responsible for your life of the man’s rate of delivery, and any abortion may cause physical damage, are far greater than the long-term use of any one scientific contraceptive methods may bring you common side effects.