1, to not cause the female sexual pleasure as premature ejaculation
Male and female female function, there is a “male fast female slow” characteristics, the male performance for erection quickly, soon into the orgasm and ejaculation; on the contrary, the woman performance for sexual excitement appears slower, generally after ten minutes, or even longer some time to come late. This is a natural difference, so the man ejaculation occurred and the woman simply did not reach orgasm, which is commonplace. For such cases, it is at most a sexual disharmony on the intercourse with the problem of sexual life.
2, newlywed premature ejaculation will be a lifetime premature ejaculation
The newlywed stage is prone to premature ejaculation, here are several reasons.
First, the newlywed stage of sexual excitement will be particularly high, full of longing and desire for sex life, both fresh and curious, easy to stimulate ejaculation;
Second, the unmarried stage of the sexual organs in the semen accumulation, can produce full of sexual stimulation, newlywed coincides with sex, easy to ejaculate faster;
Third, just started sex, the couple has not yet reached a satisfactory level of cooperation, the play of sexual function has not fully entered the normal state, easy to ejaculate too early;
Fourth, after all, just started sex, spiritual and psychological more or less some ideas, such as do not know whether they can? Is this the right way to proceed? The woman is satisfied or not? The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem. The first time you start to have sex, you will have some psychological thoughts. This mental factor will interfere with the sexual function, causing premature ejaculation is also justifiable.
3, after a long time without sexual intercourse once sexual intercourse occurs premature ejaculation
The first thing you need to do is to have sex with a person who has a problem with his or her sexual function: in fact, there is an inverse relationship between the speed and slowness of the ejaculation time and the length of time between intercourse. In other words, frequent sexual life, the interval between each sexual life is short, ejaculation appears slower during intercourse. On the contrary, the sexual life is not much, in a long time no sex life “sexual hunger” condition, sexual excitement suddenly increased, once the sexual intercourse will be faster ejaculation. So for this kind of occasional because of a long time without sex, once the sexual intercourse appears premature ejaculation, can not be regarded as a sexual dysfunction.
4, that premature ejaculation will certainly lead to erectile dysfunction
The pathogenesis of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction is not the same, so there is no causal relationship between them. But indeed some patients, after a long time premature ejaculation, and erectile dysfunction, this is a psychological factor, long-term premature ejaculation, they have been distracted, every time the room is anxious, afraid of the quality of sex life is not good, afraid of the wife is not satisfied, so the psychological tension, anxiety and worry, these psychological factors are enough to cause erectile dysfunction. If the woman really ridicule, sarcasm and reproach, equal to fuel on the fire, the more will bring psychological trauma, aggravating erectile dysfunction.
5, compared with others, their ejaculation is faster that is premature ejaculation
This is a big mistake, this comparison with others is completely unnecessary, because everyone’s sexual physiological activity is not the same, and sexual life experience and sexual life frequency is not exactly the same, there is no comparability, so do not do so.
6, the penis erection after the liquid out that is premature ejaculation
Men in the sexual excitement stimulation of male genital penis erection, from the urethra, a small amount of transparent secretion mistaken for seminal emission, it is by the urethral bulb gland, paraurethral glands and other secretion of urethral bulb gland fluid and paraurethral gland fluid by the penis spongy body squeeze from the urethra out, can play the role of lubrication of the female vagina during sex, and is not a pathological phenomenon.
7, short masturbation time is premature ejaculation
The diagnosis of premature ejaculation is based on the length of sexual life, not on the length of time spent masturbating. Many people are worried about whether they are suffering from premature ejaculation or whether they will have premature ejaculation in the future because their ejaculation time is getting shorter. The “covert” nature of masturbation has the characteristic of avoiding people, so they always want to ejaculate and get pleasure as soon as possible, while the male is in a pleasurable process during sex and does not feel guilty, enjoying the pleasure and enjoyment that sex brings. If they are rashly given the title of “premature ejaculation” by the short duration of masturbation, it will bring them unimaginable pain and depression, and may really cause disharmony in their future sexual life, and the diagnosis of premature ejaculation requires a fixed sexual partner, a certain frequency of sexual intercourse, and a long period of time after which it is still difficult to ejaculate too quickly. The diagnosis of premature ejaculation should be made only when there is a regular sexual partner, a certain frequency of sexual intercourse, and after a long period of time, ejaculation is still too fast and difficult to control.
What is premature ejaculation?
First of all, premature ejaculation is a male sexual dysfunction. It must have several conditions.
The first is that ejaculation always, or almost always, occurs before entering the vagina, or about one minute inside the vagina during sexual intercourse, and it starts from the first sexual experience, then it occurs in any situation, with any sexual partner, in a condition we call primary premature ejaculation, or lifelong premature ejaculation. In another case, the ejaculatory latency of these patients was normal in the past, but at some point in their life, the ejaculatory latency dropped significantly to about three minutes, which we call secondary premature ejaculation, or acquired premature ejaculation. Then along with these two conditions, there should be a lack of ejaculatory control, and both spouses, or one of them, are dissatisfied and bothered. Only when these three conditions are present, we will define it as premature ejaculation.