Normal and regular sexual intercourse (or seminal emission) is important for maintaining a good reproductive environment and gonadal function. Due to the lack of knowledge and the influence of the concepts of “one drop of sperm, ten drops of blood” and “nurturing sperm and having intercourse on the day of ovulation”, excessive abstinence is very common among men. But the occurrence of many clinical male diseases is closely related to excessive abstinence. A. The relationship between abstinence and semen quality It is generally believed that the longer the abstinence, the better the semen specimen can be obtained, but research shows that this is a big misconception. Related studies have shown that as abstinence time increases, semen volume increases accordingly, as does sperm density and sperm count, but abstinence time of more than 7d increases dead sperm and deformed sperm significantly. This is precisely the reason why semen examination should be performed in 2-7 days of abstinence. As you can see, abstinence does not increase the chances of pregnancy, but on the contrary, the longer the abstinence, the lower the quality of semen and the lower the chances of pregnancy. This also tells us that for couples who have the possibility of conceiving naturally, they must have a normal sex life and maintain a frequency of 2-3 times a week without any physical discomfort, instead of blindly abstaining from sex and deliberately calculating the ovulation period before having intercourse, which in turn reduces the chances of pregnancy. It has been shown that about 50% of men will be affected by prostatitis at some point in their lives. Some cases of prostatitis may seriously affect the quality of life of the patient. The prostate gland is an exocrine gland that secretes about 2 mL of prostatic fluid every day, and young people are in the prime of their sexual activity. The relationship between abstinence and premature ejaculation premature ejaculation is one of the common male diseases. The first research found that there is a relationship between male sexual function and the fullness of the seminal vesicle gland, that is, the local regulation of male sexual function by the fullness of the seminal vesicle, the normal secretion function of the seminal vesicle, after the seminal fluid reaches a certain amount, the pressure in the seminal vesicle increases, stimulating the nerves on the wall of the seminal vesicle, causing the wall of the seminal vesicle to contract, thus stimulating sexual desire and causing ejaculation. Another study on the improvement of premature ejaculation found that it can prolong the intercourse time refers to repeated intercourse within 4 h, not the first intercourse, which is also because before the first intercourse, the seminal vesicle fluid has not been excreted for a long time, a lot of storage, the pressure is greater, the contraction force of the seminal vesicle is greater, so ejaculation is faster. So long-term abstinence is also one of the possible causes of premature ejaculation. The human body’s seminal vesicle gland produces a certain amount of seminal fluid every day, which is eliminated during seminal discharge. The most common reason for this is the fear of bleeding and the fear of affecting the woman and not having the same room for a long time. The accumulated vesicular fluid will deteriorate and become a new pathological product, which will only aggravate the inflammatory symptoms and is not conducive to recovery. Modern scholars also found through clinical control observation, for patients with hematospermia, correct guidance abstinence with clinical medication, than the drug group alone in the cure rate greatly improved. In addition, appropriate abstinence is also necessary for the treatment of some male disorders, such as low semen volume, low libido, functional non-ejaculation, and lack of sexual pleasure. The reason is that such patients may have hypersecretion of the accessory gonads, resulting in reduced secretion of seminal fluid and prostatic fluid. Appropriate abstinence can accumulate the secretion of the accessory gonads, increase the amount of semen, increase the local stimulation of the gonads and cause an increase in sexual desire. Based on this, we have achieved good results in the clinical treatment of male hypoactive sexual desire, functional non-ejaculation and lack of sexual pleasure by using the method of appropriately prolonging abstinence and the related drugs to promote the secretion of seminal vesicle fluid and so on.