From the moment a child is diagnosed with nephrotic syndrome, parents will face years, or even more than 10 years, of hardship, so what kind of mentality should parents hold during this long period? First of all, I would like to show you a couplet: “There is no law outside the world, and then you know that there is no law; the world is not yet finished, so why not finish it by not finishing it”, which was written by He Yuanpu (Lu Sheng) of Jintang County, Sichuan Province, Qing Dynasty in 1888 for the Daxiongbao Hall of Xindu Baoguang Temple. This couplet is profound and full of Zen meaning, which fits very well with the mindset of parents with kidney disease. Here I will explain for you, “people outside the world”, the original meaning refers to monks, back then He Yuanpu was to the temple to mention the couplet, of course, for monks, but the parents of children with kidney disease do not have the feeling of “people outside the world”, when they learned that their cute children suffer from kidney disease In fact, “the law has no fixed law”, “law” refers to some of the world’s There is no fixed law and law in the world. Everyone has grievances and resentments, fools envy smart people, smart people envy pretty ones, pretty ones envy rich ones, physically disabled ones envy able-bodied ones, divorced ones envy happily married ones, terminally ill ones envy the living ones, and so on and so forth, so it is not that if you are kind, bad luck will not come to you. “Then know the illegal law also”, the things of the world, you experience more, you know “illegal” things, that is, things that do not appear according to the laws of the law, in fact, is the norm, this is a normal law, so the red earth there are a lot of laughter, and There are a lot of laughter and grudges in the red earth. “For example, if a monk shaves his head and lives in a temple, is he necessarily free from the red earth? For example, if a monk shaves his head and lives in a temple, is he necessarily free from the world? If it disappears quietly and unknowingly, it may really disappear. Nephrotic syndrome is also one of the big and small things in the world, it always fluctuates between stability and relapse, as if it is cured, but inadvertently relapses again, in line with the state of “not yet cured”, in fact, what parents think is cured is not really cured, but a kind of drug-controlled remission, once the cold, exertion, inappropriate diet, or even the loss of a tooth In fact, what parents think of as cured is not really cured, but a kind of medication-controlled remission, which may recur in case of cold, fatigue, improper diet, or even the loss of a tooth, etc. At this time, we should hold the mentality of “not cured”, that is, acknowledge that the disease is not cured, and the child is recovering, and sometimes it will recur and get worse. The “not” mentality to “get over it”, with a relaxed mind to cooperate with the doctor’s treatment, and finally get cured. The child’s kidney disease is an innate practice of parents in the red earth, do not resent and blame yourself, the child’s illness is cured, parents will be successful, so thank the child!