Infertility is not a crime Nowadays those couples who can have children but are determined not to have children are regarded as “ahead of their time”, “hip”, “chic”; while those who want to have children but are infertile or infertile feel guilty and inferior. Those who want to have children but are infertile or infertile harbor a sense of guilt and inferiority. The same is not having children, but the state of mind can be very different. While the former have their own philosophy of life and do not need to be praised or criticized by others, the latter’s psychological barriers must be removed by the efforts of many people, including doctors, family, colleagues, friends, but most importantly, they are still flying in their own minds, declaring “not guilty” of the release of the …… Medical Knowledge Quick Reads Anxiety, depression, worry, anger, guilt, and frustration are common psychological and emotional states in infertility patients. The theory of psychosomatic medicine is that human mental activity, realized by the structure and function of the brain, influences all physiological processes of the organism. Conscious or unconscious psychological activities, such as emotion, perception, thinking, imagination and other factors can affect the internal balance, adaptability and health of the organism. Clinical observation and research found that psychological factors and individual characteristics are also important causes of infertility, fear, anxiety, tension can cause male sexual dysfunction and semen abnormalities, female ovulation disorders and even tubal dysfunction. In Chinese medicine theory, there is the discourse of “depression causes disease” and “depression causes disease”, which affirms that negative emotions cause changes in the function of body organs and lead to diseases, and conversely, physical diseases are often accompanied by emotional changes that aggravate the condition and prolong the course of the disease. Infertility patients who may not have a correct understanding of the condition, treatment means, regression, and hold a variety of misconceptions about the disease, contradictory ideas and not in line with the reality of the expectations, and nervousness, irritability, lack of patience, lack of confidence, minor illnesses will become complicated, making it difficult for the treatment to be effective. The key only words In fact, everyone knows that infertility is not a crime, but the feudal thought who is more or less, including you. If you’re having trouble getting pregnant, be patient when you find out what’s wrong with you, and be patient when you don’t find out what’s wrong with you. You can’t eat hot tofu in a hurry. On the way to seek children also need to combine work and rest, sometimes relaxation, rest, but “get all the effort”. Don’t put pressure on your children. Overly enthusiastic friends and family, or do not “which pot does not mention which pot” for the best, do not be kind to others to add to the blockage. Infertility is a matter of husband and wife, whether one or both of them have problems, it is best to start from the beginning of the husband and wife with the same treatment, sharing the pressure of treatment, comfort and encourage each other. The grace of parenting is greater than the grace of birth, and adopting a child who is compatible with you will save you a lot of heartache.