In the usual work found that many of the infertility really see for themselves. 1, has told the infertility infertility first check the male side, the woman is to check themselves well, everything is checked, found that the man is spermless, a lot of hard work to get the sperm ready, the woman’s body also can not, only IVF, only to see your luck. 2, the male side of the examination found that the male side of the problem caused by infertility, told the female side, while treating the male side, can be pregnant at the same time, the female side does not listen to must check themselves all over, the results of the treatment of vaginitis, cervicitis, uterine fibroids, endometriosis, medication, surgery, how you can still get pregnant ah? If you don’t do in vitro fertilization, who will? Is it worth to spend so much money and time? Women, you are trying to get pregnant, why are you treating gynecological diseases? Gynecological disease does not necessarily affect your pregnancy? The opposite is true! 3, the young couple contraceptive years, living a small life of two people. Ready to start to want, a few months did not conceive, the couple fussed, complained to each other, busy hands and feet. Then the above-mentioned situation continues to happen. 4. Sometimes, couples who come for IVF are asked what the reason is. They say that the old people are pushing them hard, they have been pregnant for a while, but they are not pregnant, so they don’t want to be pregnant anymore, so they want to do IVF directly and faster. Then I have to ask, do you want this child or your parents want it? Whose child is it? What do you consider fertility as? What are you ashamed to face your future children! 5, superstition!!! Superstitious experts, superstitious drugs, superstitious prescriptions, is not to believe in themselves, is not to believe in their own rational judgment, do not believe in others to tell him the truth. You do not spend money who spend money, you do not touch the wall who touch the wall! Then, to a professional’s eye to give some advice: 1, maintain a calm state of mind, no matter how much said infertility is highly prevalent, the vast majority can still get pregnant naturally. This is a common sense! If you are still anxious, let the male partner check the semen, if it is not strong, you can improve the quality and accelerate the speed of conception. The woman tells can herself that the quality, color, quantity and cycle of my periods are normal and there should be no major problems (if there are obvious problems another story). Wait quietly and do what you need to do! 2, have a good sex life! From the sexual physiology, in terms of sex, two people are feeling very happy when, but also is often the most efficient time for couples reproduction. Do not neglect your body’s needs and enjoyment. If you just think that sex is only a means to procreation, then be warned that sooner or later your marriage will have a red light. Divorce without success abounds in fertility centers. 3. Know your enemy and know yourself. Everyone is engaged in a specific job, it is impossible to know everything. Even if it is a doctor, but also this specialty is not necessarily very clear about the problems of that specialty. Therefore, it is important to learn. You can never be a medical expert, nor do you need to be. But doing some targeted understanding is actually valuable for individuals to solve that personal problem. How do you do that? First, go online, not necessarily accurate, but you can have a general understanding, be careful not to go on the private hospital website, that is, once on, there will be a customer service dialog box of the kind. Secondly, and most importantly, consult with a specialist. At this point you need to make a rational judgment to distinguish whether this doctor (not necessarily an expert) is telling the right view of the problem, or pulling you to start examination and treatment as soon as possible. This is the time to keep your head clear and your eyes open! In short, infertility is a difficult problem, but as long as you remain rational and calm, you can definitely solve the problem in a simple way.