The time to have intercourse after hysterectomy depends on the surgery method, some patients can have intercourse after one month of recovery and some patients can have intercourse only after three months, as follows: 1. However, you must pay attention to hygiene and be gentle during intercourse. 2. 3 months before intercourse: If you have had a total hysterectomy, you cannot have sex for three months because there are a few incisions at the top of the vagina, and it takes three months for the incisions at the top of the vagina to heal completely. However, when having sex for the first time, you must also be careful not to be too strong to avoid causing damage to the vaginal wall, resulting in pain and infection in the lower abdomen.