Epilepsy is a common neurological disorder that includes a wide variety of seizure types and various types of epileptic syndromes. Epilepsy can occur at any age, with two peak incidences in childhood and old age. It can manifest a range of functional disorders, including many co-morbidities and their multiple effects on individuals and families, in addition to seizures of varying severity, seizure types, and etiologies. The frequency of seizures is unpredictable and unpredictable in front of family members, colleagues and fellow classmates. The recurrent seizures of Zhang Cui-Rong, Department of Neurology, Shanghai Deji Hospital, on the one hand, not only bring physical pain to the patient, but also unpredictably occur in a few patients with falls, burns, tongue bites, etc. Seriously, asphyxia and malignant arrhythmia occur, endangering the patient’s life. On the other hand, patients with epilepsy may also suffer from psychological distress, fear, discrimination and isolation, and their families may be overprotective, overindulgent, and over-subsidized, leading to poor psychological tolerance, emotional irritability and psychological distortion. How to better control seizures? How to avoid the side effects of anti-epileptic drugs? Can women with epilepsy have children and breastfeed? How can we better enable our epileptic patients to have a healthy life like others? This is the most important topic for people with epilepsy, and it is also the direction and goal we have been working on. How can we achieve our common wish? The most important part is to go to a regular epilepsy hospital, to clarify the type and cause of epilepsy, to reasonably choose the most appropriate antiepileptic drugs, and to give targeted, individualized and standardized antiepileptic drug treatment plans, and to assist with ketogenic diet treatment for some refractory epilepsy, and for those with surgical indications, epilepsy surgical consultation, if necessary. If necessary, epilepsy surgery can be performed. The majority of patients can get good control with regular standardized diagnosis and treatment. The most important thing is to learn to live with the disease, to develop good habits, to strengthen self-restraint, to abandon improper knowledge and understanding of epilepsy, and to have a healthy and positive mindset. For this reason, family members of our epilepsy patients must have higher requirements, careful observation of patients, more communication with patients, timely detection of problems, if necessary, please have a neuropsychological assessor who is good at epilepsy patients, early detection of abnormalities in psychological behavior, early guidance. 4, society correctly understand epilepsy, give each patient care, care. With the development of science, every member of society has become more aware of epilepsy, abandoning the traditional misconceptions and misunderstandings about epilepsy and extending a loving hand.