Premature ejaculation-like ejaculatory dysfunction is a disease that is mainly manifested by ejaculation at the beginning of sexual intercourse, or even ejaculation before sexual intercourse, which prevents normal sexual life. It is the most common sexual dysfunction disease in men, and has become one of the most common diseases in urology and male clinical treatment around the world. The main clinical manifestation is rapid ejaculation. The patient’s ejaculatory latency time is often in the normal range, and the patient subjectively believes that he or she is prematurely ejaculating. Such premature ejaculation cannot be considered a true pathological process, and usually hides a psychological disorder or a relationship problem with the sexual partner. The psychological characteristics of premature ejaculation-like ejaculatory dysfunction are: (1) subjective perception of sustained or non-sustained rapid ejaculation; (2) patient’s own imagined premature ejaculation or inability to control ejaculation anxiety; (3) actual vaginal ejaculation latency time is normal or even long; (4) ability to control ejaculation becomes low when ejaculation is about to occur; (5) patient’s anxiety cannot be explained by other psychiatric disorders. In addition to premature ejaculation-like ejaculatory dysfunction is triggered by disease, the vast majority is due to psychological factors, so patients with ejaculatory disorders should pay attention to adjust their mindset in life. Excessive psychological burden will aggravate the condition. Men with premature ejaculation are mostly anxious about whether they will develop further, and even start avoiding sex. Excessive psychological emphasis adds to the psychological burden which also happens to be the main factor leading to premature ejaculation. The treatment of ejaculation disorder is a problem for both husband and wife, the woman should pay attention to comfort and enlighten the man to communicate in a timely manner because the couple understand each other best and can help each other best, many methods to treat premature ejaculation through massage between the couple are very effective, if necessary to the regular male treatment.