”Dear friends, when you get on the first tram in the morning and walk to the factory, when you carry the plow and harrow to the field, when you finish a cup of soy milk and carry your school bag to school, when you sit quietly at your desk and plan the day’s work, when you stuff an apple into your child’s mouth, when you take a leisurely walk with your lover, my friend, do you Do you realize that you are in the midst of happiness? You may look at me with surprise: “This is very common!” But those who have returned from Korea will know that you are living in happiness.” In his famous article “Who is the most lovely person”, Mr. Wei Wei tells what is a happy life, which is this kind of ordinary and almost imperceptible happiness. But indeed, this simplest and most simple happiness is often overlooked by everyone. Working in the ICU ward every day, facing a patient whose life is in danger, in pain and full of tubes, facing their eyes with the thirst for life, this simplest and most simple happiness will come to my mind from time to time. For one of my patients, to be able to drink a mouthful of water is happiness, to be able to speak and express their pain is happiness, to be able to breathe freely is happiness, to be able to urinate and defecate without bothering others is also happiness, to be able to get out of bed and walk a few steps is even more happiness. A patient from Zhangjiagang was once rescued, and he lay on the bed for nearly half a year, unable to speak on the ventilator, with tubes all over his body, and sometimes the bed sheets were wet. Six months later when he was finally able to speak, I asked him what he wanted to do most now, and he said something that I still can’t forget: “I want to sleep beautifully in a dry and soft bed now!” My patients let me experience that it is a great happiness to live a normal life, to speak and sing, to drink and eat, to walk and sleep, and so on and so forth, which is a luxury for my patients, but for us who are living a healthy life is a kind of happy enjoyment! Therefore, I always say that being sick is not a bad thing, of course it is a painful experience, but the most essential joy of life that can be experienced from it is the most valuable gain of being sick and lying on the bed, a sharp brake on the original life, and then back to the beautiful origin! The patient I mentioned before, he originally could only accompany his wife and children at home for one meal a week at most, and he ate and drank with them all the time, and drank two or three pounds of liquor every day, and the taste of life was the drunkenness of the tumbling and babbling. But now that he has recovered from his illness, he continues to go to work, away from social functions and the dinner table, every day at home to make soup and cook, and after dinner to take a walk together, watch TV, and share the joy of family with his wife and children, even his lover said that his illness was worth it! So I always feel that my patients should be able to become thinkers and philosophers, because they were once close to death, but now after passing, they will certainly have a deeper, more thorough and unique understanding of life, life, and life than we who are still healthy, these are the greatest rewards of the disease to them! Maybe you have been healthy, maybe you have also experienced the torture of disease, maybe you have seen the life and death of friends and relatives, maybe you have also felt the instantaneous death of life, there may be a lot of experience, but no matter how we can not forget to be able to live peacefully in this beautiful world is the greatest happiness of life, do not go chasing fame and fortune, do not go demanding money and food. “A fountain of food, a scoop of water”, life is actually very simple, as long as you do not forget the most essential things in life, you can go to enjoy it, your life will also be full and beautiful! All of you, please understand happiness in detail and treat yourself slowly and kindly!