Can. The first time may be difficult to enter or painful intercourse due to nervousness, inexperience, etc., resulting in less vaginal secretions and insufficient lovemaking fluid. Lubricants can be used appropriately to help with better access and to reduce pain, thus reaping the benefits of a better sexual experience. Consider choosing a water-based lubricant, which is not only more lubricating and easier to clean, but also safer and more effective when used with sexual products such as condoms. It is recommended to do a good job of foreplay before the first time to have sex, not only to promote the secretion of more love, but also to enhance each other before the emotional exchanges. At the same time, pay attention to grasp the strength, action to be gentle, so as not to cause discomfort to the private parts.