Is hymenoplasty the right thing to do? Medically, it is no different from any other cosmetic surgery, but it is at the same time an issue that deserves to be treated with caution. Awareness of the hymen is good for the harmony of marriage and happiness of life, but there are also many problems that arise, especially in our country, where most people are still conservative and do not have the means to accept that the first time has been lost, even leading to the breakup of the marriage. The magazine “The Beginning of Man” has discussed the sensitive issue of whether hymenoplasty should be done, and there are two very different attitudes in the society: one is firmly opposed to doing the same, believing that hymenoplasty is a trick, giving “three escorts”, “prostitutes”, and “prostitutes” to cheat people out of their money. “The other view is that it can be done at will, just like double eyelids, which is a cosmetic surgery, to which our view is that one cannot arbitrarily judge whether a virgin is a virgin by whether the hymen is ruptured or not; secondly, according to a sexual sociology survey, more than 70% of lovers are not satisfied with the hymen. The second is that according to the sociological survey of sex, more than 70% of lovers “do not care” or “understand” whether their object has had sex with others before marriage, reflecting a tolerant attitude; the third is that the surgery can be carried out according to the need, as appropriate, specific analysis of the problem. At present, we have received more than a thousand people, including a considerable number of young women to consult the hymen repair problem. Recently a female college student with tears in her eyes asked for a hymen repair. She said it was her third time to fall in love. In the first love accidentally lost, and this time about a graduate student, computer studies, family living in rural areas, more traditional thinking, very important to the girl is a virgin. This female college student was afraid of losing this opportunity and pleaded for this surgery as soon as possible so as not to lose this object. For the sake of the girl’s future family happiness and to give her psychological balance, the hospital specialist personally performed the repair. Hymenoplasty is not complicated from the point of view of sexual medicine, it is only a minor surgery, however, from the point of view of sexual psychology, sexual sociology and sexual aesthetics, it is a big problem. A recent peculiar “marriage” in Shanghai, in which the bride escaped from her fiancé’s four-year stay in the U.S. with a PhD, was a case of loneliness and physiological impulses, and the bride lost her virginity to someone else. The “foreign” doctor’s right to the first night demand, only to “escape” in response, and then towards “divorce”, thought-provoking. For the issue of hymen, it is more important to prevent the problem before it happens. In the lectures on puberty education given in many universities and colleges, I emphasize more on “true love must wait” and “let’s wait until that sacred day”. Now developed countries abroad advocate “restoration of virginity”, “aspire to a serious love life”, a university in the United States, and even funded awards, where the girl to 19 years old by the doctor certified still virgin, can be awarded $1000, although few people came to receive the award The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem, but it also reflects a tendency of the heart. Or let us all lovers revisit Marx’s famous quote: “True love is expressed in the lover’s subtle, modest, even shy attitude toward his idol, and never in the casual flow of passion and premature intimacy.” Young men and women in love should know that love is, after all, a great and holy feeling, which includes a far more beautiful and deep spiritual union than the physical union. The climax of feelings “consensual” sexual behavior, can not represent all the real love, to the body is not the highest reward of love. The young men and women of modern times should abstain from the sexuality of the mundane and admire the elegance of love. Only to that realm, the youthful period of people “when the gold list”, “the night of the wedding” will become the two most beautiful pleasure of life. The doctor’s responsibility is to give reminders and suggestions when necessary, not to interfere with personal decisions. I believe that individuals can make a choice whether hymen repair surgery is necessary or not.